I am considering body k...any opinions....also on a incense type frag that is not obnoxious...thank you....
I really like YSL Body Kouros. It's a very nice fragrance that can be worn year-round...very versatile as well. A non offensive incense fragrance would be Sonoma Scent Studio Fireside Incense or Comme des Garcons Kyoto...my personal favorite is 2 Man though. I love the incense/candle wax/wood combination. It's simply amazing.
Can't speak to the first one, but for the second, I'm not sure what you deem obnoxious as far as incense goes, but there's a cool "incense wars" thread going strong right now.
For my money:
Montale Full Incense
Goutal Encens Flamboyant
Jovoy Paris La Liturgie
Sonoma Scent Incense Pure
and, of course,
Norma Kamali Incense
There are more, but there's a few to get you going.