Where do you usually spray your scents? That can influence longevity and sillage A LOT.
I used to use a lot of spray in different places (neck, wrists, elbows etc.), but I have found that spraying on the chest, preferably on chest hair if one has it, keeps the scent going for much longer, and gives a more radiant and less aggressive sillage. More like being drawn in levitating, by the smell of the pie in the window, rather than being mugged and assaulted with scent
I guess the fact that some of the scent is bound to get on the shirt, when spraying on the the, helps with longevity as well.
But we are all different, and what works for me, might not work for you.
Try giving it a rest, and experiment from there on. If my suggestions work, then I am happy to have been of assistance.