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post #1 of 34
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Dear friends,

It has been my distinct pleasure, and honor in being with all of you through the thick and the thin. Through the past few years I have found a place-a home if you will, that I could come to when all other doors were shut. I've been with you through marriages, divorces, deaths, births, and everything else that life has thrown at all of us. I've never quite had the opportunity to express quite what I've felt about all of you. Mostly due to the fact that I have yet to meet one of my basenote kin face-to-face. I'm sure all of you lead interesting lives, or at least interesting enough to yourselves. Sometimes I wonder about some of you. What kind of people you are, what you're really like away from the computer, and about your lives.

As of late I'm sure that you may (or may not) have noticed that I have been away from the site quite a bit. Please forgive me, I've had quite a bit to deal with lately. Recently I moved, changed jobs, and have been helping my family with a few challenges that we all must go through in life. No more than 2 months ago my lovely girlfriend informed me that we could be expecting a child. At the time it didn't quite register with me, mostly because it was just her guess and she hadn't even taken a test yet.

Fast forward approximately a month and a half to today (August 5th). Today I saw my child for the first time. He (or she) is no more than 3 months old the doctors say. I saw it's hands, feet, head, and heard it's heartbeat. Then it really sank in with me that I will soon be entering a new phase in my life. One where I cannot be selfish, even for a second. My time and effort must go into being for my family and child, what my father never was for me.

I love perfumes just as much as any other person on this site and I must say that I will most certainly miss the packages in the mail, and multiple messages in my inbox. I have realized now that I must purge everything that can be purged. I must ditch everything that can be ditched. Pay off my credit cards, my car, and hopefully start saving some money for when my child arrives.

I hope that I get many chances in the future to be as avid a poster as I once was on this site. But from here on out I will begin to phase myself out as much as possible. Perhaps list some things on the sale boards, Maybe even buy that bottle of Cuir Ottoman that I've been wanting for so long and be done with it.

Just know friends, that no matter where my life takes me after the next 6 months I will always remember all of you. I can only hope that your lives take as many good turns as mine has for me lately.

Good luck in all your endeavors-present and future, and remember you will never be forgotten.
-Jesse Sword
AKA Thrax
post #2 of 34
We will miss you a lot too. Take care and keep smelling good... and do keep dropping in for a visit in between!

All the best to you Jesse
post #3 of 34
What an eloquent post! First off, congrats on becoming a Dad! Second, we will miss you hugely. I always loved your insights and your incomparable sense of humor. I know you are shouldering a lot of responsibilities right now, but I still hope you can find a few moments to think of us, and maybe take a quick peek at our antics from time to time.

My best thoughts and wishes go with you and your loved ones. You will most definitely be missed around here! Dude hug!
post #4 of 34
Congratulations on expecting a child! Kids are awesome!

Let us know if baby wipes really smell like Bvlgari Blv!
post #5 of 34
Awe, little Jesster! Its funny all the main members here have at some time or another had to have a break but most return when they can

I sincerely hope you and yours have great joy welcoming your new little one into the world and I wish you all the best. Your a very kind man Jesster and have a very mature head on your shoulders!

Col
post #6 of 34
Congratulations Thrax! You're a good man.

Best Always,

Mario
post #7 of 34
I commend you on your priorities Thrax. You will be missed. You hooked me up with a free bottle of Visit and a great deal on my SotD and one of my top 5 scents ever, L'Anarchiste, and for that I am indebted to you. Of course, that pales in comparison to how indebted we all are to you for your incomparable sense of humor and even more importantly, doing the right thing and putting your child first.

I too hope I can be as selfless and apply the lessons I've learned from not having a father figure in my life either, when the time comes. Congrats and all the best wishes,

~SoS
post #8 of 34
Jesse- I remember some of the more serious personal situations you encountered as well as some minor ones on the board. You always came through with your integrity intact. Good luck with your impending fatherhood and don't hesitate to drop me a PM just to chat. I am sure we will see you here more than you now think. All the best. Stu
post #9 of 34
Jesse, first of all, congratulations ! You are entering a new period of your life but please, don't worry. A baby doesn't cost much. Except nappies, your don't need plently of expensive things you will only use once or twice. Stay simple in your head, behave naturally and everything will go fine.

Regarding the fragrances part, you will certainly have to slow down your buying but you won't stop sniffing and your won't stay away from all your friends for long. A baby is a wonderful way of seeing and learning life. You'll go for long walks in the wood with him or her and you will smell plenty of beautiful things.

When I had my daughter, I decided to stop everything and to spend all my time with her. At the end, I just went on with my hobbies taking her with me and now, she's six and sniffing as much as her mum.

Just stay cool and keep us posted !
post #10 of 34
Jesse,

Your moving post is a testament to the wonderful father you will be. You got your head on straight, my friend.

Fasten your seatbelt - you're in for the ride of your life! Congratulations and best wishes to all of you, and I hope you'll drop in when you can.

Terry
post #11 of 34
Congratulations, Jesse!

Drop in when you can, we understand. Priorities are priorities & you have yours straight.

That's good, very good. I know you are going to be a terrific father.

Sincerely,

Christine
post #12 of 34
Jesse,

Congratulations! Your life is evolving and taking on a new meaning. I'm touched at your recognition of this fact, and your acceptance in regard to responsibilities...you are a man. Your girlfriend and child are lucky to have a real man, this is the only prerequisite to being a real father. Sounds to me like you are going to do just fine! Jaime B is right ~ your sense of humor is truly second to none, and I'll miss reading your posts. Wholeheartedly, I wish you the very best in life.

June
post #13 of 34
Thrax,

You and I don't know each other as I'm rather new here. But I wanted to join the others in wishing you all the best. Congratulations of becoming a father! I'm sure you will come back to say hello when you have the time.
post #14 of 34
I remember you said the Rykiel Homme juice you saw comes in blue. And I took it as a joke.

Anyway, congratulations on becoming a full-time dad. I wish you and your family luck, health, and prosperity. I can imagine how hard it's gonna get when so much responsibility is lying ahead, especially with a new life, but then again, best of luck and come visit basenotes sometimes.

Oh, we do have a new member in advance--it's your child.
post #15 of 34
Dear Jesse,

Congratulations on the accomplishments!!!
It is definately one of the most exciting news for me. I am sure there is going to be a lot of challenges for your and Mrs Thrax ahead. Good luck with what the future holds for you!
I will miss you and please come back and visit us.

P.S. I still hold the Sweet Oriental Dream you sold me, and thanks for introducing me to Black Aoud.

Warm regards,
Chris
post #16 of 34
Hello Jesse:

Interesting the various paths that open and paths that close as we pass through our lives!

Keep us in mind as we will you. No need to cut the ties, just find a moment or two for yourself now and then (you will need it on occasion) and let us know how your life is going.

All the best,

Ken
post #17 of 34
I will miss you around and your always thoughtful posts. Good luck on fatherhood, and best wishes for your family.
post #18 of 34
Jesse,
Best of luck to you and your family and congratulations on your wonderful news! We will miss you on BN, but maybe you can drop in once in a while and even post a pic of you and the baby?

take care, shannon
post #19 of 34
Dear Jesse,
you'll be missed for sure here. Let me just add the best wishes for everything with your growing family man!
post #20 of 34
that reminds me that i should ALSO go and buy the bottle of Cuir Ottoman i've been putting off! thanks!
post #21 of 34
Jesse!
Congratulations! It's great that you have your priorities and commitments straight. You'll be missed on the boards but please drop in when you get a chance. I hope in time, you'll be organized and feel more relaxed and secure about it so that you can have a little fun here too.
Best wishes and keep smelling good!
RM
post #22 of 34
Congratulations!!! You'll be an awesome dad




P.S Relish every.single.second of privacy you have now....nobody told me this & I wish really they had
post #23 of 34
Jesse, looks like I joined BN too late to read many of your postings. Don't vanish completely. Come back and say hello from time to time.

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Originally Posted by Thrax View Post

I have realized now that I must purge everything that can be purged. I must ditch everything that can be ditched. Pay off my credit cards, my car, and hopefully start saving some money for when my child arrives.

... but keep your favorite bottle. Night is right. The cost per day won't amount to much in the long run, and it'll keep a smile on your face.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Thrax View Post

I saw it's hands, feet, head, and heard it's heartbeat.

Ummm ... definitely time to change the icon on your thread from to either or . It simply doesn't get any better than that.
post #24 of 34
Although I'm a noob to basenotes, I'm pretty experienced as a parent now. The most important thing you can do for your child is to pass on the things you've learned. And that includes your love of life. And that includes your nose. You're a good guy, and while the folks here may get less of you, your child will have a wonderful parent. Don't ditch the things you love, because you can only teach those by loving them and letting your child see you love them.

This isn't the end, Thrax. This is the beginning! And I'm so happy for you! Good luck and best wishes!

-Red
post #25 of 34
Congratulations! You are going to be a great dad! Life priorities change and so do the things we can spend our time and money on. Just remember you will have a new life to pass the love of fragrance on to. ;o)
post #26 of 34
Big Daddy Thrax...

Congratulations on fatherhood. I don't know what it's like (yet) but I imagine it would be both scary and beautiful-- so enjoy the experience. And don't fret too much.

I've enjoyed your presence on here very much, and we'll miss you if you stop coming here (we already did miss you when you cut back on posting). That being said, a lot of us have taken time away to get our lives in order-- it's a natural thing to do. But don't stop your passion for perfumes because of resources/raising a child. We're a pretty resourceful bunch here, and we love to make samples-- so if there's anything you want to try, you know you'll always have the "Basenotes Hookup!"

Best of luck, you're a stellar guy-- take your time to focus on your life, but don't ditch us man!

Ted
post #27 of 34
Hey, Trax!

Congratulations! A few days ago, I was wondering where you were - if nothing else, I'm glad to hear you're doing fine. I have to admit that I'm very surprised by the great news but, based on what I know about you, you should make an awesome dad.

It would be a shame to see you totally disappear from the community but it's very obvious what's more important here. Just remember that you'll always be welcome.

Wishing you all the best, in the next (and exciting) chapter of your life.
post #28 of 34
Thrax -- please take care...

Wish you the very best!
post #29 of 34
Congratulations!
I wish you and your family the best of luck!
post #30 of 34
Quote:
Originally Posted by Thrax View Post

Just know friends, that no matter where my life takes me after the next 6 months I will always remember all of you. I can only hope that your lives take as many good turns as mine has for me lately.
Good luck in all your endeavors-present and future, and remember you will never be forgotten.
-Jesse Sword
AKA Thrax

The best moments on BN are when companions speak the truth and open their heart. It's like looking into your eyes, and those are getting a little soft! I wish you happiness, and strength when it's needed most!
A dad with a heart of gold! That is important for a child!

narcus
post #31 of 34
Wonderful news and wonderful post! And it's true that babies don't cost much and don't need much besides your constant and total attention. But you find that nature has provided you with this other baby gear that you can shift into. If you have time, scribble a quick scrawl when the baby arrives, some stats and an account of how all three of you are. I know we would all love to share your joy. As Lou Reed says, "It's the beginning of the great adventure."
post #32 of 34
I'm a little late to the party, but I wish you all the best on this new chapter. Ain't life grand, sometimes?
post #33 of 34
wow, first child.. congratulations.
post #34 of 34
Post when you can and keep us in the loop on what's happening in your life!
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