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post #1 of 8
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Ok, so I'm thinking of getting a haircut, my hair is a bit too unruly when long and it's fairly thin and the longer it gets the thinner it looks.

I'm 26, and fairly introverted and shy but tend to dress kind of hippieish (lots of earth tones), and casual indie/metal/trendy.

I guess what I'm asking is if you can just look at my pics and suggest a hairstyle, perhaps posting a picture or naming a celebrity who currently has the look. It's been a LONG time since I"ve had a radically different style and I don't even know where I want to go with it. No idea is off limits except a shaved head, and that's only because my head is.. misshapen. :bounce:

One thing to keep in mind is that I have a hairline much like this soccer player


Now, it's always been that way and as far as I can tell it's not receding - or if it is it is doing so extremely slowly, but regardless, a hairline like that coupled with thin hair can lead to gaps between the hair up there that shows the flesh up there and it's just not attractive.

So, what do you think would work with that hairline and my face shape? I REALLY appreciate any and all replies.

Here are a few pics of what my hair looks like now:








this one is a bit older, and I think is actually a decent picture. Unfortunately my hair rarely behaves like that and usually looks so much worse .

These may look okay but honestly my hair is way too bushy in the back and these are the "best of" photos I snapped of myself as those are the only ones I had saved . The second picture gives some indication to how thin and flat my hair is (especially at this length!) and the third how bushy it gets in the back.
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Here is a shorter length that I am considering going back to








right after a haircut

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I was thinking of going with something like this but worry it will make me look older as I would no longer be hiding my "receded hairline" under hair of any sort.





And before anyone asks, yes, I do smile, just not for pictures

So, what should I do?

edit: Sorry for posting so many pictures. I'm really not trying to be vain. I just know there are a lot of well groomed, image savvy individuals here and am looking for advice on top of what my friends have given me so far. Thanks again!
post #2 of 8
Hi SoS!
I´ve been looking at your pics, and I think your looks just fine. Personally, I have a weakness for bald guys, but if that´s not a option, I would say - go for a ponytail. Totally cool and sexy!
The best you could do, is to find hairstyles you like in magazines etc, bring some pictures along with you to the hairdresser to hear their professional opinion. Good luck!

PS: Don´t let a friend cut your hair (unless he/she happens to be a hairdresser), in the end you will have to visit a pro, nevertheless. Believe me.
post #3 of 8
Ive been thinking of shaving the whole lot off for the summer too - right down to the stubble. Our hair length, hairline and texture is similar (though mine a little thicker I think). I actually really like the last pic you posted - I think it would suit you, as you have a similar face shape and facial hair to carry it off.
My hairline is also getting high... embrace the hairline and go the whole hog...because, well, it ain't gettin' any lower.



EDITED: Just adding these 3 pics taken over the last 18 months with varying hair lengths. I think your hair is at a good length to be very versatile... you could pretty much go anywhere with it (except longer). I say snippity-snip for summer
post #4 of 8
I like your hair longer as in the first few picks. But I also think you'd look great in the short cut of the last pic. That guy has a receding hairline too. Now I know you won't believe this, but I think a short cut and a receding hairline is rather sexy. I think it's better not to try to hide thinning hair, but you still have enough hair to wear it long so that you don't look like you're trying to hide it. If you do go short, I would like to see you shave your face clean too. You are handsome and should show it off!
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Ive been thinking of shaving the whole lot off for the summer too - right down to the stubble. Our hair length, hairline and texture is similar (though mine a little thicker I think). I actually really like the last pic you posted - I think it would suit you, as you have a similar face shape and facial hair to carry it off.
My hairline is also getting high... embrace the hairline and go the whole hog...because, well, it ain't gettin' any lower.


AGREED! The photo you chose is current and would suit your hairline/hair texture. I also have to chime in and say I think the heavier goatee should be retired... combined with the longer hair it makes you resemble Shaggy from Scooby-doo...Personally, I LOVE shorter hair on guys! Go for it...if you don't like it, it will grow back.
post #6 of 8
How cute are you! You'll look great no matter what you decide. I like the picture you posted. Don't worry too much about the receeding.

I heard on wait wait don't tell me (npr) that the comb over was invented by julius ceaser. But we don't like comb overs. (Though if you run the roman empire you can wear your hair any damn way you like.)
post #7 of 8
Oi, no worries about the hairline. Women are fine with it and respect a guy that isn't trying to hide who and what he is.

It can actually work to your advantage as most women your age and a bit younger have calmed down a bit prefer an older guy for his maturity and stability.

In the end, any woman worth having isn't going to give a damn about your hairstyle. She'll want the man that wears it.

Dmitri,

Ironic you are taking it all off just I have grown it out for the first time in a decade. Eveyone in my family is shocked because they thought I shaved it because I didn't have any hair.

post #8 of 8
So what did your friends recommend? Enquiring minds want to know.
I rather like the last picture you posted, I think it would suit you. Don't fret too much about the camel humps, they're natural. One thing, though: if you do go for that style it would mean styling your hair every day. I know I can't be bothered, so it might be something to keep in mind if you're equally lazy.
Oh, and I'm with ubu on the goatee
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