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Did I make a mistake that Is Unforgivable?

post #1 of 127
12/3/09 at 12:48am
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The day before Thanks giving I bought a 1.7 oz Unforgivable that was buy one get one half off. So I got both, and since I had a coupon the total came out to $24

The day after Thanksgiving I go to Sears and see that an Unforgivable gift set with a 1.7 oz EDT, a 2.5 deodorant, and a 2.5 shower gel. It was on sale for $18.99 I remembered I had a Sears Gift card so Bought 8 gift sets for $60 after using the gift card.

Do you think I made a good decision? I like the synthetic hybrid between Imperial and Wallstreet. They are my two favorite fragrances. Unless my nose is deceiving me, there also seems to be a hint of Cool Water. I don't know why but all of a sudden i am liking this fragrance I never thought I was even considering smelling again.

So now I have 10 bottles of 1.7 oz Unforgivable. 8 gift sets, and two bottles by themselves. All for less than $100. And I like the hbrid of my two favorite fragrance, even if it is sub par. Its fun to wear when you don't want to use up any of your favorite expensive scents, and still be wearing a fragrance reminiscent of them. I think I made a good choice, But tell me my Basenotes friends, would you have made the same decision?
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post #2 of 127
12/3/09 at 12:59am
well i just paid like 80 for a large bottle, so i think u got a great deal.. although personally i would have been happy with 1 small bottle at the price u got yours for..

i already want to get rid of my bottle and get the multi-platinum instead
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post #3 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:01am
I dunno, mate. I remember another thread by your hand which centered on compulsive buying. I'd file this behaviour there.
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post #4 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:05am
You'll never use that in a lifetime. Sorry, I see this as a waste of money. You don't need 5 or 10+ bottles of everything you own, especially not things that are still in production or easy to obtain.
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post #5 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:12am
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Originally Posted by veuve amiot View Post

I dunno, mate. I remember another thread by your hand which centered on compulsive buying. I'd file this behaviour there.

That is true. But it only seems like I am compulsive with Colognes and Watches only.
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post #6 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:14am
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Originally Posted by SculptureOfSoul View Post

You'll never use that in a lifetime. Sorry, I see this as a waste of money. You don't need 5 or 10+ bottles of everything you own, especially not things that are still in production or easy to obtain.

The price was oh so tempting.
And P Diddy stole my heart when I saw the pic of him gazing deep into my soul! J/K on that last one
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post #7 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:26am
Maybe you can turn it from compulsive buying to business by selling some of them and make some income.
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post #8 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:26am
Weren't you the guy whose wife told him not to buy any more bottles of cologne? How is that going?
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post #9 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:26am
I'd have bypassed the lot and just got another bottle of M I.
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post #10 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:28am
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Originally Posted by jasonx View Post

Maybe you can turn it from compulsive buying to business by selling some of them and make some income.

Trust me I have been told by everyone (my wife) to do so. But I love my fragrances. Every fragrance has its own story to me.
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post #11 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:29am
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Originally Posted by Big_Scooter View Post

Weren't you the guy whose wife told him not to buy any more bottles of cologne? How is that going?

It's going pretty, pretty, pretty good.
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post #12 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:31am
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Originally Posted by JON RODGERS View Post

I'd have bypassed the lot and just got another bottle of M I.

I was thinking the same thing, I have about one dozen MI, maybe more, so I thought I would get something different, Unforgivable.
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post #13 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:44am
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Originally Posted by Maz24 View Post

Trust me I have been told by everyone (my wife) to do so. But I love my fragrances. Every fragrance has its own story to me.

Well, if it isn't creating any problems in your life, you can buy whatever you like. I will freely admit that it seems very strange to buy 10 bottles of a scent you consider sub par.


Was it a good decision? Depends what your goals are. If you are selling them, you could turn a bit of profit. If you actually think you will wear all of them and you saved yourself money finding a good deal, great. If you are buying them to fill a closet, most people would probably not consider it a good decision.


edit: oops, meant to quote the original post
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post #14 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:52am
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Originally Posted by Maz24 View Post

That is true. But it only seems like I am compulsive with Colognes and Watches only.

I'm sure it's "limited" to fragrance & watches, but that's not the point, is it?

The theme in the last thread was a thinly veiled attempt to have others justify your compulsive behaviour, and when commenters expressed their doubts, defending that behaviour. Seems the same is happening in this thread. Which -again- makes me wonder what the use of asking for advice is, other than justification of your actions.

I mean, it's your money and you should do with it as you please, but I'm not going to pat you on the back for it.
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post #15 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:12am
That's a lot of Unforgivable. I can see having one or two backups but 8 of them is a bit much especially since it's still in production and easily found. At least you got a great deal.

While flipping through tv last night I came across Diddy pushing his wares on HSN and he sold a ton of it at $57 plus shipping so you didn't do so bad. He actually sold out of all of the Unforgivable in one segment and so much of the rest of his stuff that they cancelled the later show cause there was nothing to sell. Amazing. A caller asked what he was wearing at the moment and he said that puts on Unforgivable first and then "tops it off" with I am King. I don't know if he's telling the truth but he's so smooth that man didn't skip a beat.
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post #16 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:42am
Well you did get a great deal. And I can see the logic of having a bunch of bottles onhand for everyday, workhorse usage so that you don't have to use your high-end stuff as much. I'd say if you have the money to spare, then be happy with the deal you got and spray liberally
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post #17 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:51am
Well, do you really have a serious shortage of the premium stuff, so that you need to use sub-premium stuff in very, very large quantities? Is it extremely rare that you can afford a premium bottle?

From the other posts in this thread, it sounds like the purchase of the premium stuff is not a rare occasion. So, no, I wouldn't have made this purchase. I'd recommend gifting, donating, or selling most of it away.
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post #18 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:54am
From one compulsive buyer to another: you've got a problem, bro'.
You're buying it, not because you really really like the perfume or really need it (it's way too much to ever use) or for the explicit purpose of reselling it at a profit, but entirely for the short-lived kick of having made a great deal. Call it a variation of ebayitis. If it makes you feel better: your affliction IS necessary to keep consumer capitalism from collapsing.
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post #19 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:04am
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Originally Posted by SculptureOfSoul View Post

You'll never use that in a lifetime. Sorry, I see this as a waste of money. You don't need 5 or 10+ bottles of everything you own, especially not things that are still in production or easy to obtain.

Agree 100%.

It's only a good deal if you use it!

Unless you are using it as a piece of artwork on display.
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post #20 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:16am
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Originally Posted by Djamison66 View Post

Well you did get a great deal. And I can see the logic of having a bunch of bottles onhand for everyday, workhorse usage so that you don't have to use your high-end stuff as much. I'd say if you have the money to spare, then be happy with the deal you got and spray liberally

thank you my friend
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post #21 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:21am
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I have been using it almost everyday and enjoying the hell out of it. I have used the gift set as well. The smell of Imperial somehow always puts me in a good mood. This puts me in a good mood similar to wearing MI. So basically it uplifts me for a fraction of the price of Imperial.
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post #22 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:39am
Wow. That's really excessive.

Just because you could, doesn't mean you should.
Good deal aside, you've given in to your compulsion again BIG TIME, and that's worrying. I personally would not stock up on a single scent like that unless it was being discontinued.

Ultimately you can do the heck what you want, but Im kinda glad you're not managing my finances.
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post #23 of 127
12/3/09 at 4:03am
I can't stand Sean Jean/P Diddy. I wouldn't even buy one of those.

But if you like it, that's cool. You wear what you like right? I probably would have only bought one bottle though, unless I either planned to sell the rest and make a profit or smell like Unforgivable for the rest of my life.
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post #24 of 127
12/3/09 at 5:08am
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Originally Posted by L'aventurier View Post

I can't stand Sean Jean/P Diddy. I wouldn't even buy one of those.

But if you like it, that's cool. You wear what you like right? I probably would have only bought one bottle though, unless I either planned to sell the rest and make a profit or smell like Unforgivable for the rest of my life.

There are worse smells than Unforgivable to smell like for the rest of my life. But no, I won't smell like it all the time. Just during my down time.
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post #25 of 127
12/3/09 at 5:30am
Well, compulsive buying is only a problem if you don't have money left to save on the bank.
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post #26 of 127
12/3/09 at 5:37am
If I were you, I might have done the same thing, but then sold most of them. There are some scents that I'd like to have backups due to their good price, but always stop because the money can be spent on new scents, instead.
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post #27 of 127
12/3/09 at 6:08am
How many bottles of Unforgivable have you emptied? Who knows? Maybe you will get through them.

To me, Unforgivable was less interesting than MI, so it wasn't an option.
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post #28 of 127
12/3/09 at 6:09am
Yes, it is unforgivable! What were you thinking!
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post #29 of 127
12/3/09 at 6:30am
And here I thought you're buying all those as X'mas gifts for your friends... On a more positive note, this would be a good time to literally soak yourself in a bathtub of Unforgivable...
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post #30 of 127
12/3/09 at 6:40am
You made P. Diddy (or whatever he's called now) an even richer man.

That's Unforgivable
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post #31 of 127
12/3/09 at 7:05am
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Originally Posted by Maz24 View Post

The day before Thanks giving I bought a 1.7 oz Unforgivable that was buy one get one half off. So I got both, and since I had a coupon the total came out to $24

The day after Thanksgiving I go to Sears and see that an Unforgivable gift set with a 1.7 oz EDT, a 2.5 deodorant, and a 2.5 shower gel. It was on sale for $18.99 I remembered I had a Sears Gift card so Bought 8 gift sets for $60 after using the gift card.

Do you think I made a good decision? I like the synthetic hybrid between Imperial and Wallstreet. They are my two favorite fragrances. Unless my nose is deceiving me, there also seems to be a hint of Cool Water. I don't know why but all of a sudden i am liking this fragrance I never thought I was even considering smelling again.

So now I have 10 bottles of 1.7 oz Unforgivable. 8 gift sets, and two bottles by themselves. All for less than $100. And I like the hbrid of my two favorite fragrance, even if it is sub par. Its fun to wear when you don't want to use up any of your favorite expensive scents, and still be wearing a fragrance reminiscent of them. I think I made a good choice, But tell me my Basenotes friends, would you have made the same decision?

The above bolded is where I laughed. It is so random and funny at the same time. Non-chalant..."Great deal so I picked up 1 or 8 of them.". I think overkill. I can see you walking around with the boxes stacked.
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post #32 of 127
12/3/09 at 7:22am
As on the other thread, I'm going to echo others' sentiments on this situation as well. While I agree, that a problem only truly becomes a problem when it begins interfering with your life or your finances, if you can afford these splurges then perhaps it doesn't become an immidiate issue. However, I feel that it has become quite clear with this thread and the other similar one, that you DO have a problem, that could perhaps be playing itself out in other ways in which you aren't sharing with us. Trust me, coming from someone with clinically diagnosed Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, I understand how difficultit can be when you have Compulsions, but you need to accept that you DO have them, and get them treated, and Maz, this IS a compulsion, it's simply not normal to need to purchase an obscene amount of something, that you clearly won't use or even particularly like, and then proceed to seek approval for said actions.

Before you say that you really do enjoy and need them, pay attention to all of your posts (not just in this thread) regarding Unforgivable, and notice the gradual change in your opinion on it once you purchased this mass amount of bottles, its reflective of the natural need to rationalize the compulsion. My friend, trust me, you need to STOP, and just take a deep breath, and look at your wardrobe. Look at the multiple bottles, and ask yourself "Am I ever going to even touch 75% of these in my life. Am I going to gift them or sell them off?" If the answer is no to either of those, you need to seek some help.
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post #33 of 127
12/3/09 at 7:29am
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Originally Posted by mtgprox05 View Post

As on the other thread, I'm going to echo others' sentiments on this situation as well. While I agree, that a problem only truly becomes a problem when it begins interfering with your life or your finances, if you can afford these splurges then perhaps it doesn't become an immidiate issue. However, I feel that it has become quite clear with this thread and the other similar one, that you DO have a problem, that could perhaps be playing itself out in other ways in which you aren't sharing with us. Trust me, coming from someone with clinically diagnosed Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, I understand how difficult and can be when you have Compulsions, but you need to accept that you DO have them, and get them treated, and Maz, this IS a compulsion, it's simply not normal to need to purchase an obscene amount of something, that you clearly won't use or even particularly like, and then proceed to seek approval for said actions.

Before you say that you really do enjoy and need them, pay attention to all of your posts (not just in this thread) regarding Unforgivable, and notice the gradual change in your opinion on it once you purchased this mass amount of bottles, its reflective of the natural need to rationalize the compulsion. My friend, trust me, you need to STOP, and just take a deep breath, and look at your wardrobe. Look at the multiple bottles, and ask yourself "Am I ever going to even touch 75% of these in my life. Am I going to gift them or sell them off?" If the answer is no to either of those, you need to seek some help.

Excellent post!
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post #34 of 127
12/3/09 at 8:36am
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And here I thought you're buying all those as X'mas gifts for your friends... On a more positive note, this would be a good time to literally soak yourself in a bathtub of Unforgivable...

Exactly what I thought while I was reading the first post.
"Cool guy, giving frags for Xmas"
...then found out you're gonna use them all yourself? Whoa
...just my two cents, if I had that many bottles of one scent it would spare me the hassle of thinking of something to give my Dad, the boss, my client-friends...Shopping buzz? Check,done and over with. Saved me a whole lot of time and effort to think of gifts too? Check, check and another check (okay...to whom should I give out these other bottles to...)
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post #35 of 127
12/3/09 at 9:05am
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But tell me my Basenotes friends, would you have made the same decision?

In short, no, I would not have made the same decision.
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post #36 of 127
12/3/09 at 9:21am
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Originally Posted by surreality View Post

In short, no, I would not have made the same decision.

+1. Next . . .
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post #37 of 127
12/3/09 at 9:28am
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Originally Posted by Maz24 View Post

I have been using it almost everyday and enjoying the hell out of it. I have used the gift set as well. The smell of Imperial somehow always puts me in a good mood. This puts me in a good mood similar to wearing MI. So basically it uplifts me for a fraction of the price of Imperial.


You know what might also put you in a good mood? Returning all those gift sets you compulsively bought and donate the money you get back to a nice charity for the holiday season.

Just sayin'
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post #38 of 127
12/3/09 at 10:01am
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Originally Posted by Maz24 View Post

So now I have 10 bottles of 1.7 oz Unforgivable. 8 gift sets, and two bottles by themselves. All for less than $100.

When calculating cost, you should consider the value of the gift card as cash.

I calculate over $175 + tax.
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post #39 of 127
12/3/09 at 11:52am
How many of your frags have similar stockpiles to back them up?

Some of you guys seem to have missed the post where he said he has twelve bottles of Millisime Imperial. He bought 10 bottles of a fragrance he doesn't seem to particularly like based on the fact that he doesn't want to waste his MI, which he has 12 bottles of.
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post #40 of 127
12/3/09 at 12:14pm
Yes, you got a good deal. Now please consider immediately donating all those gift sets to a charity that gives out Christmas gifts People are very generous with giving toys for younger kids but these charities are usually in desperate need of gifts for the older teenagers.
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post #41 of 127
12/3/09 at 12:22pm
Stuff you don't need at a price you can't refuse...

Flip on Ebay or donate to charity, or sell for cheap to those on Basenotes starting out... It's not a huge amount of money and you got a lot, but yes, it does seem a little excessive
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post #42 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:02pm
If I get a great deal on frags I enjoy, I will often buy a couple of back ups. As long as you have the room to store them! LOL. In any case, I think the crucial thing is to be fairly certain that you really do like the frag, and won't get bored by it. And in some cases, you can get lucky and it becomes discontinued, leaving you with several items to sell on ebay for a lot more than you bought them for. I don't see a huge downside here, unless you are buying several backups of expensive niche frags for a modest discount.
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post #43 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:08pm
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Originally Posted by Big_Scooter View Post

How many of your frags have similar stockpiles to back them up?

Some of you guys seem to have missed the post where he said he has twelve bottles of Millisime Imperial. He bought 10 bottles of a fragrance he doesn't seem to particularly like based on the fact that he doesn't want to waste his MI, which he has 12 bottles of.

The only reason why we don't bring it up, I'm assuming for those of us that have been around a while, is because Maz has a history with MULTIPLE back up bottles of scents he enjoys. I think at one point he had close to 2 dozen MIs, so at this point it doesn't bare repeating.
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post #44 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:26pm
"Did I make a mistake that Is Unforgivable?" Yes.

"would you have made the same decision?" Absolutely not.

But history shows this feedback clearly doesn't matter to you so what's the point of even bringing it up?
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post #45 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:30pm
I agree with Maz about unforgivable being somewhere between Wall St. and MI, it's got good topnotes especially. The Multi-Platinum Version of Unforgivable is actually better than Wall Street imo (less blaring geraniol and givaudan orange), and closer to MI than Wall street is. I like the regular Unforgivable, but the Multi-Platinum version isn't just more concentrated, it's far better.
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You'll never use that in a lifetime. Sorry, I see this as a waste of money. You don't need 5 or 10+ bottles of everything you own

Well, with a light citrus scent like Unforgivable, one can go thru alot fairly quickly, especially if you reapply throughout the day.

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especially not things that are still in production or easy to obtain.

Well, that's true, unless it's a total bargain.
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post #46 of 127
12/3/09 at 1:46pm
you should try multi-platinum.
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post #47 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:04pm
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Some of you guys seem to have missed the post where he said he has twelve bottles of Millisime Imperial. He bought 10 bottles of a fragrance he doesn't seem to particularly like based on the fact that he doesn't want to waste his MI, which he has 12 bottles of.

Yeah, that's....Wow. There aren't many options there.

Option 1: This is a reasonable amount considering your usage. Which means you wear WAY too much fragrance and are choking us all to death.

Option 2: You have serious hoarding issues. Sell some on ebay, give some as gifts, ease up. And...maybe get some help. There is something that seems a bit off about your tone, it's like you want someone to tell you it's OK, it's nothing to worry about...but methinks you doth protest too much.

I normally try not to jump in a judge like this, but you did ask.....
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post #48 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:09pm
^To put all that in perspective I own both MI (12oz for under $240) and Multi-Platinum (7.5oz for under $65), and each time I wear MI, it's about 12-14 sprays, each time it's multi-platinum, it's about the same. I probably used 1oz of MI and .5oz of multi-platinum just this summer alone.

It's not sables he's hoarding, although a dozen bottles of unforgivable and MI seems excessive even if he's as heavy handed as me.
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post #49 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:30pm
Maz, you should contact A&E and see if they can get a camera crew out to you right away.

Great show, but unlike sister show Intervention, it never seems to "take".
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post #50 of 127
12/3/09 at 2:42pm
I'd like a fragrance named Unforgiven. Eastwood-power, yeah! ;-)
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post #51 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:10pm
That's... a lot. I have one backup bottle for A*Men Pure Malt because it will be discontinued and that's it. To be honest, I would never even buy ONE bottle of a fragrance I thought was "alright". There's a lot of frags that I think are alright, I only buy the ones that I thoroughly enjoy. I'd send them off for charity or as gifts for friends
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post #52 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:19pm
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Originally Posted by DULLAH View Post

I agree with Maz about unforgivable being somewhere between Wall St. and MI, it's got good topnotes especially. The Multi-Platinum Version of Unforgivable is actually better than Wall Street imo (less blaring geraniol and givaudan orange), and closer to MI than Wall street is. I like the regular Unforgivable, but the Multi-Platinum version isn't just more concentrated, it's far better.
Well, with a light citrus scent like Unforgivable, one can go thru alot fairly quickly, especially if you reapply throughout the day. .

Reapply I do! Its fun to always enjoy the combination of my favorite fragrances at the same time. Which Unforgivable does for me. And I do enjoy smelling good
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post #53 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:47pm
Has anyone tried the third flanker Unforgivable Night yet?
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post #54 of 127
12/3/09 at 3:50pm
^Or unforgivable Eau fraiche
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post #55 of 127
12/3/09 at 4:46pm
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Originally Posted by dmarino67 View Post

Has anyone tried the third flanker Unforgivable Night yet?

Yeah it's good. The top note however has a lot more citrus to it. It smells similar to Unforgivable, but with a nice twist.
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post #56 of 127
12/3/09 at 4:48pm
Thanks. I'll check it out.
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post #57 of 127
12/3/09 at 4:53pm
Unforgivable has a horrible shelf life, so I think you definitely made a mistake. Plus it lasts all of 2 hours, and thats with 10+ sprays, so I'm thinking I either got an old bottle or its just weak stuff.

I would sell a few of them on Ebay or give half away as Christmas presents, no one needs that much of Unforgivable.
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post #58 of 127
12/3/09 at 5:42pm
Eight bottles of Unforgivable should be good enough to not waste any of your twelve bottles of MI...
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post #59 of 127
12/3/09 at 5:46pm
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Originally Posted by Dimitri View Post

Wow. That's really excessive.

Just because you could, doesn't mean you should.
Good deal aside, you've given in to your compulsion again BIG TIME, and that's worrying. I personally would not stock up on a single scent like that unless it was being discontinued.

Ultimately you can do the heck what you want, but Im kinda glad you're not managing my finances.

I have to agree. Not only was this compulsive but it was for a fragrance that I wouldn't take if it were free.
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post #60 of 127
12/3/09 at 9:01pm
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Unforgivable has a horrible shelf life, so I think you definitely made a mistake.

+1

Sell all but two of them asap.
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