So many great suggestions that I only want to specify which concentration (sorry, I have no interest in EdTs here) to my perception.
L'Heure Bleue (is the most feminine of the ones mentioned, but not more than Chamade) - I'd definitely recommend to get the new extrait. I have been complimented by a woman not knowing what it was.
Vol de Nuit - in my top 3 of perfumery, maybe even no. 1, but pointless (extremely short-lived) in EdT. So, there is only the extrait left.
Shalimar - the current EdP and extrait are easy wears for a man.
Mitsouko - the current EdP is more "masculine" than the extrait.
Not an easy house (and not one that I'm too familiar with either) for me since it is so quintessentially "woman" to me. However my choice would be Cuir de Russie. I love No. 22, but I think it is very 'femme' and I have to be in the mood to carry it proudly. I would definitely look into the Exclusifs and pick what you like and feel comfortable with. Chanel No. 19 is maybe too 'butch' (too green) for me. *LOL*