No need to play the victim, Guy. Nothing personal meant to either you or Joe.
I'm just saying that out of all of these usual threads, I think this is one of the better thought out ones. No-one is denying anyones's right to wear anything, but some of us, and I agree that I am one of them, are sensitive to being perceived as feminine. If that makes me insecure, so be it, but no one can deny that these feelings are prevalent in society. Not on here on BN, I grant you.
There are, however, sometimes comments posted on this type of thread that could be construed as being condescending. If I am wrong in my interpretation of these type of comments, then I apologize to one and all, unreservedly.