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MikeJ 
I have an outstanding relationship with PayPal is what I am trying to say.
I've been using PayPal for over a decade. I'm no noob there.
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1. Always communicate/deal with the seller first. Counterfeit vendors know they are selling fake products and will usually refund you.
I did this. She offered me a refund, but she fought me every step of the way in hopes of still making money from our transaction. Restocking fee? For counterfeit goods? I don't think so. Pay to ship the item back to her? I don't think so. We're not talking about an item I wasn't happy with as if it's some kind of buyer's remorse. The item was a counterfeit. It needed to be destroyed.
I will not return a counterfeit item to a seller so she can sell it to another unsuspecting customer and I hope others on basenotes would agree. We don't like getting stiffed with fakes. If we return the fakes, we're part of the problem of fakes on ebay since we help keep fakes on ebay.
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2. If the seller offers a refund upon the items return, offer to return the item.
NO.
I cannot, in good conscience, return counterfeit goods to someone who profits by cheating people with counterfeit goods. Nor would I give gasoline back to an arsonist. Or give a knife back to a mugger.
I made it crystal clear to the seller I would be happy to resolve the matter in exchange for a full refund and her permission to destroy the counterfeit. I offered to send her proof that I'd destroyed the counterfeit or even ship her the destroyed counterfeit if she wished. She wanted it back in perfect condition so she could sell it again to somebody else. No way.
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3. When dealing with eBay, go through eBay's buyer protection first. They are more responsive and tend to cover buyers very well
YES! I made the mistake of opening a case at PayPal, and that turned out to be a huge hassle because a PayPal case automatically closes a case at ebay. Then again, in the end, it may work out for the best because I'm getting my money back, the counterfeit will be destroyed, and the seller will be royally screwed.
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4. When dealing with PayPal, make yourself sound like an expert. This sounds silly, but...
Actually, it doesn't sound silly at all. It's an excellent point, and it goes along with my comments about documenting everything. Simply put, it's a smart move. Know what you're talking about, and then speak in a way that reflects this.
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5. In any case. SHOW RESPECT!
Agreed. The people at PayPal and ebay are just doing their jobs, and their jobs are to resolve matters as quickly as possible without getting PayPal and ebay in legal trouble. That's why there isn't even a way to report counterfeit goods. They want to say no more than that an item wasn't as described, get the item returned, issue a refund and close the case.
The person on the phone isn't to blame, but
ASKING SOMEONE TO RETURN A COUNTERFEIT TO A SELLER OF COUNTERFEITS IS AN ABSOLUTELY ABYSMAL BUSINESS PRACTICE and both ebay and PayPal should be ashamed that they don't have a better way of protecting their customers, including their future customers. Ebay in particular needs to do a better job of making sure counterfeits sold on ebay get destroyed rather than sold again on ebay. Asking someone who was cheated to send the counterfeit back so the seller can cheat someone else is absolutely unquestionably pathetic as a business practice. I cannot state this strongly enough. It is not acceptable for PayPal or ebay to offer someone a refund only if that person will send a counterfeit item back to someone who makes a living selling counterfeits.
Remember: ebay is aware that this particular seller already has three suspended accounts! Also, the seller agreed it was a fake and offered me a bribe in exchange for a 5 star review. If I would have said yes, she'd have even let me keep the fake, but how would others on ebay find out not to trust that seller if people like me lie and say she is outstanding? I never said I would give the seller a negative review, but I did tell her I would not lie and give a positive review.
In the end, because she refused to allow me to destroy the item, she got a 1 star review with negative feedback stating she sells fakes and cannot be trusted, plus a case against her at PayPal and a report with documentation against her at ebay, and I'm getting my money back, shipping included.
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6. This point isn't necessary, but I feel it should be posted. Do not believe the B.S that most of these power-sellers will try to feed you.
Absolutely. The sellers are just trying to protect their businesses. A seller who doesn't deal in counterfeits will probably be very willing to work with a buyer who received a fake. Sellers who deal in counterfeits know all of the steps they can take to slow down the process in hopes of getting away with it since their entire business depends on getting away with it. That's why I'm so shocked the seller didn't agree to give me a refund and let me destroy the counterfeit. She could have avoided so much trouble.
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Hope all goes well for everyone.
I DON'T.
I want sellers who profit by dealing in counterfeits to get kicked off of ebay and PayPal, and I won't mind if those sellers get in legal trouble too. I want ebay and PayPal to get annoyed enough or be pressured enough to have to take steps to get criminals off of their services since they (ebay and PayPal) should NOT be profiting from illegal activity. I believe that ebay and PayPal have their systems rigged to avoid ever acknowledging counterfeits (and probably other illegal activity as well). They just want to make money and hope problems go away. I find that unacceptable. Ebay needs to be a safe place to buy and sell. There is no excuse for ebay to tolerate sellers of counterfeits, especially when those sellers already have multiple suspended accounts!
I find it offensive that PayPal offered me a refund IF I WOULD RETURN THE COUNTERFEIT TO THE COUNTERFEIT SELLER. I was offered money if I'd assist the seller in committing future crime. I am not ok with that. Absolutely not.
Ebay needs to take counterfeits seriously. I'm still blown away that ebay and PayPal both wanted me to return a counterfeit to the seller. That's crazy. I'd have been thrilled to send it back to the seller if ebay had some way of tracking it to bust the seller when she'd put it up for sale again, but that's not how it works.
Ebay isn't going to take steps to keep counterfeits off their site unless enough of us demand that they do. I've done my part.