This thread is why I love basenotes.
In any event, having spent way too much time in strip clubs (and not the classy ones), I can say this: strippers have smelled every bad cologne known to man, up close. I used to wear GIT, but got tired of the ladies telling me how good I smelled, and asking me if I was wearing Aspen. Happened more than you'd think. Never Cool Water, just Aspen.
I then started wearing Pure Havane on the theory that it was strong and lasted a while, and could cut through the smoky atmosphere. It worked like a charm, and the ladies loved it. So, my advice would be to wear something simple, relatively strong, and just a bit different.
Wait, forget all that. You're going with your lady. Wear her favorite. If she asks you at any point why you wore it, just tell her "Because even though we're surrounded by all these women, the only one I want to smell good for is you."
You've got to realize who you need to focus on if you're with a lady at a strip club. ESPECIALLY there.