Just joined the group. I practice in the Boston area, self-employed. My practice concentrates in Plaintiff's PI and special education litigation.
Regarding fragrances, I think the best frag to wear if you want to intimidate the other side in a depo or trial is, without a doubt, Van Cleef & Arpels Pour Homme

. This struck me the other day when I was trying a case and wearing the stuff.
As for feminine scents, it's really hard for me to say. Here in Massachusetts, hardly any lawyers wear perfume at all. I'll have to ask my wife her thoughts...