Welcome to the madness.
First, don't worry about not being able to describe frags. I've worn them all of my adult life and I still cannot describe, with any accuracy or style, anything I smell. Fortunately there are some very good noses here who do a fine job for those of us who can't!
While I didn't quite get a great idea of what you are looking for, I did note that you like smoky frags and also are a fan of MPG, so naturally my suggestion would by Eau de Iles if you haven't already tried it. It's a mind-
blowingly wonderful scent.
I routinely run my scents by the women in my office (all two of them--my office has a total of 5 people, which is why I am generally careful about what I wear) and today's SOTD--Azzaro's VIsit--blew them away, and is usually my suggestion for anyone looking for ANY type of scent. It smells so good and is so versatile.
Anyoo I'm sure you'll get a lot of feedback and ideas and welcome once again!