Have you tried Donna Karan`s Black Cashmere? I really do think it has similarities with Rush For Men, and though it is definetely more suitable for women, it is also in men`s favour. (In fact, I`ve been wearing B.C. today)
Rush and B.C. both have large amount of cedar and also prominent incence note.
What makes B.C. little bit more feminine is that jasmine note with some other exotic florals.