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    what do gay/bisexual basenoters hear wear?

    i wear bulgari aqua and brit by burberry
    i love it




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    i also love claiborne sport

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    stupid post

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    Great way to break down the walls of inequality, and help eliminate any possible generalizations and stereotypes!!!

    Gay people like and wear what straight people like and wear.


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    NO NO NO NO NO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IPaidForThisName
    Great way to break down the walls of inequality, and help eliminate any possible generalizations and stereotypes!!!

    Gay people like and wear what straight people like and wear.

    Indeed.

    But since I'm gay I figure I might as well answer the question. I like orientals, citrus and florals. My top 5 are HM, Happy, Silver Mountain Water, and the other 2 are constantly changing. As far as mass market goes, I like CDG2, John Varvatos, and Sung Paradise. For niche, I like L'Artisan Voleur de Rose, MPG Baime, MPG Centaure, SMN Nostalgia, CSP L'eau du Goveurneur.

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    Wow. I've been away for awhile, I come back eager to re-immerse myself in thoughtful discourse about fragrances, and am greeted with this stupidity.

    Don't get me wrong: I don't dislike gay or bisexual people, just stupid self-excluding ones. Grow up.

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    geez guys. take it easy.

    there are people with many different backgrounds here. i'm sure he didn't mean anything by it. how about pointing out the error of his ways nicely first?


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    Quote Originally Posted by liquid
    geez guys. take it easy.

    there are people with many different backgrounds here. i'm sure he didn't mean anything by it. how about pointing out the error of his ways nicely first?
    Yeah, I think a lot of the posts in this thread are really overreacting.

    Perhaps he's just looking for some gay pheromones?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ren
    [quote author=liquid link=1127349826/0#7 date=1127355329]geez guys. take it easy.

    there are people with many different backgrounds here. i'm sure he didn't mean anything by it. how about pointing out the error of his ways nicely first?
    Yeah, I think a lot of the posts in this thread are really overreacting.

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    I think so too...

    He was just asking an honest question that needs straight answers. Maybe he was trying to know if there are differences in the preferences of gay and straight people. There's nothing wrong with that... IMHO.

    Just my 2 cents....


    John



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    Quote Originally Posted by MacCOOL
    [quote author=Ren link=1127349826/0#8 date=1127355769][quote author=liquid link=1127349826/0#7 date=1127355329]geez guys. take it easy.

    there are people with many different backgrounds here. i'm sure he didn't mean anything by it. how about pointing out the error of his ways nicely first?
    Yeah, I think a lot of the posts in this thread are really overreacting.

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    I think so too...

    He was just asking an honest question that needs straight answers. Maybe he was trying to know if there are differences in the preferences of gay and straight people. There's nothing wrong with that... IMHO.

    Just my 2 cents....


    John


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    I don't there's anything wrong with that either. He asked what gay BN'ers like to wear, I gave my answer.

    I've never thought of the sexual orientation of the general population here, but if I had to guess, the demographics here would be educated, well to do straight men. And because most of my favorites are well liked around here, that means there aren't too many distinctions in our noses.

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    Can`t say about myself, but some of my friends are gay.
    They wear all the same frags - as I could remember: L`Eau par Kenzo pour homme, Bvlgary pour homme, Acqua di Gio, Ambre Precieux MPG... Sounds true to me - as there`s no gay fragrance shops...

    I only met one person with quite refined taste inclined towards selective frags.
    He wore very rare things as REN Cologne 04, Norma Kamali Perfume and Incense layered, and a lot of others...
    Vetiver The Great!!!

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    i'm just sayin that ppl come from all kinds of different angles, places, and stages in life. and as long as you can tell that they don't mean any harm or injury in an innocent comment (which i think fits the OP), then maybe we can cut them some slack. people aren't often just naturally enlightened ya know.

    anyway, just my 2c.


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    My question is why does it matter what gay people wear? I think they have the same likes and dislikes as straight people when it comes to scents. This thread seems to be more like who here is gay? I don't see any threads like what do straight/lesbian/indian/black/white/mexican/etc Basenoters wear?
    Oriscent, AgarAura Pure Ouds, Creed, LIDGE, Patou Pour Homme, tons of niche and rare stuff for sale!
    http://www.basenotes.net/threads/253...er-100-items!!

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    Excuse me while I stay the hell out of this thread!

    (covers head with hands and runs quickly out of the room)

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    If there's any negative reaction or overreaction here to this question it's because IT'S BEEN DONE. I can think of at LEAST 3 threads like this one in the past, and nothing good of it has ever come of them.

    I don't think people meant to be rude. It's just that some of us that have been around for a while saw the thread and went "Oh no....not again..." in the same vein as seeing yet another post like "what scents pulls the ladies?"

    You can only beat a dead horse for so long. At first it may be interesting, then it becomes really, really tedius.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AZsmells
    My question is why does it matter what gay people wear? I think they have the same likes and dislikes as straight people when it comes to scents. This thread seems to be more like who here is gay? I don't see any threads like what do straight/lesbian/indian/black/white/mexican/etc Basenoters wear?

    Why do we make things more complicated that it is? He was merely asking for some preferences of gay people... if it does exist. He himself mentioned his fav scents and of course any non gay person could answer his question merely by stating some gay friend's/officemate's preferences in perfume. This is not a witch hunt for gay people. His post was an innocent question and that's all there is to it.... nothing else.

    People here are overreacting....


    John


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    Hm, as for whether Gay or Straight men wear different fragrances, I can't imagine there being any sort of correlation, but this thread has made me think of something, regarding a friend of mine. We were talking about fragrances and he told me that he really wants to find a fragrance to wear, and maybe will I go shopping with him one day for one. Anyways, this started me thinking about a fragrance that would suit him, I know nothing about what he especially likes, but I can sort of imagine him liking something light, earthy, sort of simple, 'cause that's the kind of guy he is. But also, it just occurred to me that a lot of people wear fragrances in the hopes of attracting potential mates. This isn't personally why I wear fragrances, but now I am sort of wondering if maybe he would like to wear something that is alluring to the same sex -- because he's gay, and just from the signals he's been sending, he is very lonely and looking for a nice guy. So, anyways -- uhh, don't flame me, but if there are any gay men who find particular fragrances sexy, I suppose I would be curious to know which ones. Although honestly, now that I think of it, I am probably more into the idea of finding a fragrance for this guy, than he is himself! Hm, anybody else just love picking out scents for people?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoneFish
    Hm, as for whether Gay or Straight men wear different fragrances, I can't imagine there being any sort of correlation, but this thread has made me think of something, regarding a friend of mine. We were talking about fragrances and he told me that he really wants to find a fragrance to wear, and maybe will I go shopping with him one day for one. Anyways, this started me thinking about a fragrance that would suit him, I know nothing about what he especially likes, but I can sort of imagine him liking something light, earthy, sort of simple, 'cause that's the kind of guy he is. But also, it just occurred to me that a lot of people wear fragrances in the hopes of attracting potential mates. This isn't personally why I wear fragrances, but now I am sort of wondering if maybe he would like to wear something that is alluring to the same sex -- because he's gay, and just from the signals he's been sending, he is very lonely and looking for a nice guy. So, anyways -- uhh, don't flame me, but if there are any gay men who find particular fragrances sexy, I suppose I would be curious to know which ones. Although honestly, now that I think of it, I am probably more into the idea of finding a fragrance for this guy, than he is himself! Hm, anybody else just love picking out scents for people?

    Now, this is the best post I've read so far!

    John


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    Quote Originally Posted by Coleman
    Excuse me while I stay the hell out of this thread!

    (covers head with hands and runs quickly out of the room)
    I'm with you, buddy, i'm staying out of this one too!! [smiley=lipsrsealed.gif]
    Are you not entertained??? Is this not why you are here??

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoneFish
    ,....But also, it just occurred to me that a lot of people wear fragrances in the hopes of attracting potential mates. This isn't personally why I wear fragrances, but now I am sort of wondering if maybe he would like to wear something that is alluring to the same sex -- because he's gay, .......
    , but if there are any gay men who find particular fragrances sexy, I suppose I would be curious to know which ones. *
    this is an interesting point, i mean we know already from previous threads what fragrances are used to seduce the opposite sex,...the curious question now what fragrances are used to seduce the same sex???

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    I am asexual, and I really don't think there is any real correlation between sexual preference and fragrance.

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    I personally am not offended by this thread. However, to some this question may sound just as ridiculous as "What do gay/bisexual people EAT?"

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    First of all, i would like to apologize if anyone who was offended by my post.
    I was not intended to belittle or seclude anyone or any gender in particular.
    I was a question raised based on curiosity.. simply asking if there are fragrances that seem to be more appealing to gay men.. The point of contention is.. Gay men being open to a wider and stronger sense of sexuality and sensuality have a wider range of fragrances to choose from... Some staright men may be afraid to wear mens fragrances that are labelled too feminine.. i assume that this is not the case for gay men... if they like the scent they wear it .. even if it is labelled as slightly or too feminine...

    Again I apologize... it was not a stupid question on the contarray it was a question that required the utmost understanding

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    Quote Originally Posted by docjason
    First of all, i would like to apologize if anyone who was offended by my post.
    I was not intended to belittle or seclude anyone or any gender in particular.
    I was a question raised based on curiosity.. simply asking if there are fragrances that seem to be more appealing to gay men.. The point of contention is.. Gay men being open to a wider and stronger sense of sexuality and sensuality have a wider range of fragrances to choose from... Some staright men may be afraid to wear mens fragrances that are labelled too feminine.. i assume that this is not the case for gay men... if they like the scent they wear it .. even if it is labelled as slightly or too feminine...

    Again I apologize... it was not a stupid question on the contarray it was a question that required the utmost understanding
    Many average straight men may not be willing to wear "feminine" scents. But this is Basenotes. Many of us even wear women's perfume. Don't feel bad about this post. It was just a misunderstanding.

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    Use the word gay in a thread and all us members go into political auto-pilot mode.

    I wear what most straights (at least in this community) wear, I guess. I favour orientals, musks and leathers. Right now I'm wearing a lot of Musc Ravageur and Dzing!

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    thanks for understanding concord

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    Quote Originally Posted by docjason
    .. Some staright men may be afraid to wear mens fragrances that are labelled too feminine.. i assume that this is not the case for gay men... if they like the scent they wear it .. even if it is labelled as slightly or too feminine...

    Again I apologize... it was not a stupid question on the contarray it was a question that required the utmost understanding
    Well, I'm sure that there are lot's of straight guys that are NOT afraid to wear womens fragrances. In my case; I'm straight and I don't like to wear womens fragrances.(so you may be right after all,lol!) simply cause I don't like most of them . I do wear some niche ones though and most of em are unisex. (Creed, MPG f.e.). So : yes I'm straight and no, I don't wear womens fragrances. I'm I afraid to wear them? probably, but I'm sure SOME straight men DO wear womens fragrance. [smiley=wink.gif]

    cheers, eric

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    This whole thing peeves me a little bit because...jeez, what's the big deal, and what's the harm in asking. I'm sure that some of you buck the trends and wear Chanel #5- still, it is a scent made for and marketed to women. Same with Gaultier's Le Male being marketed to his "semi-fictitious-gay-fantasy market" Come on guys, disregarding the actual product of Le Male- look at the advertising of Le Male. There is a huge homo-erotic component to it. There is no debating it. Obviously at the end of the day we all wear what we like, regardless of all other factors. But people who deny that stereotypes are very much grounded in reality are living in a fantasy world. Just because there are exceptions to every rule doesn't mean that the stereotypes are rendered completely invalid. When i bartend at the hotel and we have black family reunions...guess what we run out of? yes, we run out of Hennessy and Courvoisier. Excuse me for noticing but the proof is in the liquor log. This week we had a bunch of southerners and as i predicted we would sell out of Coors lite. That's not to say that every black guest prefers Cognac and no white person ever drinks it- but why are people so jittery around numbers. This is reality, and yet as such we need to be able to look at such things without putting a value judgment on it. If I happen to take notice that we have sold a ridiculous amount of chicken wings during a black family reunion- why do people have to act like that's some kind of abhorration to notice it. So what? I'll tell you what. Get five hundred people of with ANY common condition together and they will exhibit similar patterns of behavior and preferences. And then get the same five hundred people and interview each one individually and you will get five hundred completely different life stories.

    I think people are getting too defensive about this whole thing. I know a lot of the members on here are gay and they don't have tastes that differ much from the straight basenoters. But if everything is the same, why are there gay TV channels now? Who do you think buys Newports and Kool cigarettes. Yes, i can haul my white ass into a convenience store and buy some Kools and think I'm disproving a stereotype, but the numbers don't line up that way. I'm just playing devil's advocate here. I know its a dead horse to alot of us here, but I think a newbie is well within his rights to ask questions. I'm a fan of Socrates, and I don't think there is such a thing as a bad question. All questions are valid. Don't crucify someone for asking. And don't always assume that because a person asks a question that involves potentially sensitive issues that they are trying to stir up trouble or offend. Its a big universe, there are no real rules, besides physics. The human mind is inquisitive. It wants to know and sometimes it asks dodgy questions with real sincerity, hoping to flush out the truth. We all do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoneFish
    Hm, as for whether Gay or Straight men wear different fragrances, I can't imagine there being any sort of correlation, but this thread has made me think of something, regarding a friend of mine. We were talking about fragrances and he told me that he really wants to find a fragrance to wear, and maybe will I go shopping with him one day for one. Anyways, this started me thinking about a fragrance that would suit him, I know nothing about what he especially likes, but I can sort of imagine him liking something light, earthy, sort of simple, 'cause that's the kind of guy he is. But also, it just occurred to me that a lot of people wear fragrances in the hopes of attracting potential mates. This isn't personally why I wear fragrances, but now I am sort of wondering if maybe he would like to wear something that is alluring to the same sex -- because he's gay, and just from the signals he's been sending, he is very lonely and looking for a nice guy. So, anyways -- uhh, don't flame me, but if there are any gay men who find particular fragrances sexy, I suppose I would be curious to know which ones. Although honestly, now that I think of it, I am probably more into the idea of finding a fragrance for this guy, than he is himself! Hm, anybody else just love picking out scents for people?

    aww!

    I'm gay, and here are some fragrances I find mucho sexy.

    Clinique Happy
    Creed SMW
    L'Artisan Voleur de Rose
    Polo Black
    John Varvatos

    .......and anything patchouli overload makes me want to.....um.....I'd better leave that one open ended.

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