The now late Martin Chung, aka parallax442 on Ebay, tried sending me a package once that just got sent back to him return to sender. We had no idea why, but I was at the time afraid it was something like what you wrote. It came through on the second try though.
I've never had trouble with my other perfume shipments so what you experience sounds like extremely bad luck.
I feel so sorry for you. I'd got nuts of frustration, but don't pay any attention to me.