No, not anymore!
I very much had that feeling of unsecurity about which scents would be proper to wear on this or that occasion, and whether they suited me, or not, etc, etc. But that was before joining Basenotes! After spending hours and hours of reading and reflecting about opinions, preferences, recommendations etc from people on the board, I have become much more (self-)confident. I realize now there is no right or wrong any more for me, personally, regarding what, when & what if...when it comes to wearing perfume.
I think I had a feeling before, sometimes, that it was the fragrance that was wearing me, instead of me wearing it!
Fracas, which I love, I now wear anytime I feel like wearing it, no matter what!
I hesitated wearing it for many years, because this is a scent that when you look upon it from an objective perspective, nobody would think suited me at all!!!
Yes, I was afraid of wearing Fracas for many years, because I thought I was too plain, too little lady-like etc. Many orientals, like Shalimar, I thought only fitted brunettes (I`m dark blond). I feel soo much more free now, wearing just what I wish to wear.