Actually, if you don't sweep her off her feet on your own, your scent isn't going to do it for you. That said, I'll admit there are some scents that make me burrow into my guy's neck and want to stay there..... (I had a college friend I'd kiss on the cheek every time I met him because he wore Cacharel for Men.... still one of my favourite fumes)
Guerlain's Habit Rouge would be my suggestion for a really, really gorgeous scent with vanilla. It's basically Shalimar for men: classic, timeless, very sexy, self-assured, and you won't be smelling like everybody and their cousin. One of the best scents around!