People say Tea for Two doesn't last but it goes forever on my skin. I really like that one and would say it is most appropriate for romantic evenings or dinners. It is a casual scent at the same time so it is really fine for everything.
Fumerie Turque is really smokey and ambery. Masculine side of Chergui. I would get this one over all of the other Lutens stuff. It is more for cooler weather. I think this one will project lovely. It is strong. I think this might be your best bet. It seems versatile enough. I wear it from my decant all the time and people seem to like it.
Good luck on your hunt.