Code of Conduct
Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 1 2 3 LastLast
Results 31 to 60 of 71
  1. #31
    Dependent

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    8,283

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by bbBD View Post
    I may have gone over the deep end, for me, and just need to vent.

    In the last week or so I've purchased around 25 decant samples, 4 bottles, and 3 skin products (that I really don't need). You know why? Discounts/sales at my favorite online retailers. For a level headed guy, you'd think I wouldn't be drawn in by 20% off, but for whatever reason I have to order when I see these sales.

    I feel better having admitted this.

    Thanks.
    People like Ben make my indulgence justifiable. and a whole lot less guilt inducing
    though its depressing once i log off from BN and start to flip thru the purchase receipts
    Last edited by MFJ; 1st August 2008 at 10:17 PM.
    Currently wearing: Chergui by Serge Lutens

  2. #32

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    I know the feeling!
    However; since I became addicted to perfume and perfumebuying, I've noticed that I spend less on other things, especially clothes.
    And since we are talking about travelling: isn't fragrances a great way to travel in your mind? You can go to the deserts of Marocco, smell the air of Capri and linger in Venezia anytime you want! I know it doesn't beat the real thing, but it's nice to dream a little while your wallet gently weeps.

  3. #33

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    Texas (formerly Boston)
    Posts
    3,090

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by matthewfoo View Post
    People like Ben make my indulgence justifiable. and a whole lot less guilt inducing
    though its depressing once i log off from BN and start to flip thru the purchase receipts
    glad i can help!

    i've actually been thinking that perhaps getting all these samples will help... part of what drives my purchasing is the unending interest in trying new things. 25 samples will take me a while to get to know.....BUT, will I then end up wanting to purchase a bunch of the full bottles I just sampled? That would be bad since I ordered all niche and boutique exclusives.

  4. #34

    Red face Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Welcome!! Sit and spritz and sniff....My Fragrance Abuse Clinic is alive and well....and there's plenty of room for you!
    Unfortunately, there is no cure...only a temporary pause in buying sprees. I've downsized, then upsized! and then found that I was only fooling myself. It is a passion...an addiction, and a liquid emotion!
    Basenotes has allowed us to congregate and educate one another, but the excuses for buying more and more can only be relinquished by you.
    I have my good months when I believe I've found the "holy grail" of scents and will not buy anymore. Then there are the bad months when a new aroma and fragrance launch sets me on fire, and the charge cards go into a tail spin!
    My advice is to buy and trade samples first, if you can get them, and then go for the full size.
    I have drawers and boxes full of everything. I give them as gifts and I always replenish with new.
    Currently, I have my "stock in Mark Birley, Acqua di Parma Colonia Assoluta, Red for Men, Courvoisier Imperiale, and Dolce &Gabbana's The One.
    It's been a few months that I've been "good"...but I feel the urge to purge and find a new.
    You're not alone...don't go bankrupt or hungry....relax...take a deep breath...and spritz
    There are far worse addictions...and you'll always have a room reserved in my Clinic
    You guys are great! Keep posting and keep the Scents Alive!!!
    Peace! and Scent-cerity...

    Ernie Gallo

  5. #35
    Dependent

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    8,283

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by bbBD View Post
    glad i can help!

    i've actually been thinking that perhaps getting all these samples will help... part of what drives my purchasing is the unending interest in trying new things. 25 samples will take me a while to get to know.....BUT, will I then end up wanting to purchase a bunch of the full bottles I just sampled? That would be bad since I ordered all niche and boutique exclusives.

    dont u get this feeling like ure detached from everything else and the only thing that comes to mind after a purchase is to plan on what to get next. "trying new things" sound very suspicious.... its almost bordering a lousy excuse to feed the obsessive frag-buying habit lol...... anyways, i can always find comfort in you. thanks! :P
    Currently wearing: Chergui by Serge Lutens

  6. #36
    Dependent

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    8,283

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by Vialman View Post
    will not buy anymore.
    the only phrase that doesnt make sense from your other-wise brilliant frag buying philosophy
    Currently wearing: Chergui by Serge Lutens

  7. #37

    CoL's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Derbyshire
    Posts
    1,510
    Blog Entries
    2

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Oh I know this feeling alright! Before I stumbled upon Basenotes I had around 30 scents. That was around 8 years ago. I now have over 700. The most I have had coming at once is 32! lol. I have special cabinets now to keep them cool and dark. I must admit I couldnt cope with just 30 now. I get withdrawals when I'm holiday and have just 10 or so. Suppose its time for another clear out!
    Currently wearing: 1881 Signature by Cerruti

  8. #38

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    I'm clearing out a bunch right now. I just don't wear the really good ones often enough. I find myself continually test driving scents I just bought. I'm spending way too much money and not enjoying my favorites enough. I buy scents and then sell them without even wearing them! That ain't right!

    I am trying to get down to between 20 to 30 scents from a recent high of 45. I'm pretty close right now. If that doesn't work, my goal will be 20. I can't see being satisfied with less than 20. But then I've got to stop with the new ones, especially from Marshall's and TJ Maxx! I'm buying crap just because it's on sale.

  9. #39

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by CoL View Post
    Oh I know this feeling alright! Before I stumbled upon Basenotes I had around 30 scents. That was around 8 years ago. I now have over 700. The most I have had coming at once is 32! lol. I have special cabinets now to keep them cool and dark. I must admit I couldnt cope with just 30 now. I get withdrawals when I'm holiday and have just 10 or so. Suppose its time for another clear out!
    Make sure to send your for-sale list's to me first

  10. #40

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    Texas (formerly Boston)
    Posts
    3,090

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by ChuckW View Post
    I am trying to get down to between 20 to 30 scents from a recent high of 45. I'm pretty close right now. If that doesn't work, my goal will be 20. I can't see being satisfied with less than 20. But then I've got to stop with the new ones, especially from Marshall's and TJ Maxx! I'm buying crap just because it's on sale.
    I too am trying to stop the blind Marshall's purchases - very few have been working out lately. At my local Marshalls about 1/3 of the boxes have been ripped open, and when this happens I have no problem sampling. For some reason I don't have it in me to rip the boxes open myself.

    Buying the Turin Perfume Guide hasn't helped - it's given me a lot of ideas for things I should try. I've gotten to a point where I've literally tried everything at the two department stores in my small town and there's nothing left I want to buy at those stores. The niche sampling has been working out well, but as predicted I want to buy about 40% of what I've sampled and that would get very expensive.

    To change my buying habits I've been toying with the idea of buying one bottle (I'm now into the wonderful world of niche) per paycheck, plus sampling. This would be doable for me and I'd have 2 new bottles to play with a month. Anyone ever tried pacing themselves like this?

  11. #41

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    The one per paycheck is my plan. It's doable, and so far it's working for me. I have resisted buying a new bottle for two weeks now, and I'm using my inventory!

    Good Luck!

  12. #42

    Smile Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    I re-sell on eBay. That way I fell comfortable (or less un-comfortable) buying. I do have a true addiction, though. I figure it beats drugs and alcohol (which are fairly rampant in my family), tobacco, fancy cars, clothes, jewelry!!
    (And I too have developed a thing for tea, as many have mentioned! What is it about tea and perfume? And many of the boutique e-tailers sell tea! What's up with that?! LOL they KNOW we can't resist because they're addicted too!! )

  13. #43


    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Location
    Los Angeles, CA
    Posts
    1,359

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Yep, once every 2 weeks is what i do, but, i do admit, i still get obsessvive sometimes.

  14. #44
    M.deCaillavet
    Guest

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    It's a bit of an impulse for me as well, but I have come to realise that consumption of all material goods is impulsive, too. I obsessively buy books, clothes, and (though I buy less of this than of anything else), cologne. And what else is there? All the money I have for frivolous spending (or, in other words, all my money) is spent impulsively on these three items.
    But that's the point of materialism. All those advertisements are designed to make you feel inadequate. How can you stop buying perfume when, after every purchase, there appears a new fragrance that promises to make you smell desirable in ways that whatever it is you've just bought can never do?

    It is important to be conscious of the effects of advertisement. Occupy yourself with something else (books do it for me) and avoid perfume ads and basenotes. As a result, you'll see that your present collection offers more than what you need, and you'll feel foolish for ever having wanted more.

  15. #45

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by CoL View Post
    Oh I know this feeling alright! Before I stumbled upon Basenotes I had around 30 scents. That was around 8 years ago. I now have over 700. The most I have had coming at once is 32! lol. I have special cabinets now to keep them cool and dark. I must admit I couldnt cope with just 30 now. I get withdrawals when I'm holiday and have just 10 or so. Suppose its time for another clear out!
    HOW?!?!
    Since im living on a subsistence level! i cant afford many at a time!
    BUT 32 AT ONCE IS LIKE 1500-2000 $ !!!!!!!!!!
    What do you work when i may ask

  16. #46
    ROBERTO's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    Lisbon, Portugal
    Posts
    13,032

    Thumbs up Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    My GOD I am not the only one...and i am completely spoiled ny niche perfumes....much more expensive....(but perfume is better than cocaine )

  17. #47

    Smile Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    My name is KeLLsTar & I am a perfumaholic.

    I know exactly where you are coming from! I developed a perfume addiction in the last year & went crazy buying new perfumes after being a 1 perfume girl for ages and ages.

    I love the fragrances, & smelling nice but I think it's a bit more than that too.

    * The "buzz" of getting a bargain
    * Buying something that was just released
    * The anticipation of getting something new in the mail
    * Having something that's special, discontinued, unique
    * Getting compliments from friends, family & strangers!
    * Talking/typing to other people about your new favourites & sharing opinions.

    I still love perfume, but I think I've beaten the addiction.

    I look at the perfumes I currently have and feel that it would be a shame for any of it to go "off". If I keep buying more, there's more chance of what I have just sitting there. I know that perfume can last a long time but I don't want to take the chance. It would be a waste of my money, time and energy. I couldn't forgive myself if I had to throw any out!

    I've given myself a certain amount of space in my linen closet for my perfume. It's close to full so I won't purchase anything new until there's a spare spot - that means I have to keep using it.

    I don't save my perfume for a special occassion - I use it every day no matter if I am going out or slumming at home - my perfume is for me, not for other people - compliments are just a great side effect.

    I've bought many different types of fragrances, rather than one particular group so I think I've covered my favourites. This means there will be less chance of me seeing a type of fragrance that I don't have and wanting it & also that I have the right perfume for the right mood!

    Hope this helps you, even a little bit. There's nothing wrong with an addiction, as long as you can control it! Us addicts have to stick together!
    I ♥ vanille

  18. #48
    Basenotes Plus

    Redneck Perfumisto's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Spiritually, Kansas
    Posts
    24,338
    Blog Entries
    39

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Love it, KeLLsTar!

    My name is Red, and I'm a colognaholic with perfumaholic tendencies. Among my worst crimes are spreading the disease to those around me. Two ruined so far, more on the way.

    I realized just how bad this is when we were driving to the mall the other day. I sniffed my left arm up and down, looking for unscented spots that I could spray while testing at Saks. Joyful that there was only one unusable spot on my left arm (Terre d'Hermes, near the bottom of the wrist, 2 inches back), I joyfully calculated aloud how many fresh spots I had left for testing.

    "Dad, you sound like a heroin addict looking for places to inject."

    Yeah.

    My name is Red, and I'm a junkie.
    Currently wearing: Galop d'Hermès by Hermès

  19. #49

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Red !
    L'amour fait songer, vivre et croire. Il a, pour réchauffer le coeur, un rayon de plus que la gloire; et ce rayon, c'est le bonheur. (Victor HUGO)

  20. #50
    AromiErotici
    Guest

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by CoL View Post
    Oh I know this feeling alright! Before I stumbled upon Basenotes I had around 30 scents. That was around 8 years ago. I now have over 700. The most I have had coming at once is 32! lol. I have special cabinets now to keep them cool and dark. I must admit I couldnt cope with just 30 now. I get withdrawals when I'm holiday and have just 10 or so. Suppose its time for another clear out!
    My God man !!! You can literally open a franchise with all those frags.

  21. #51

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    My name is VM I hate civet and I am a perfumaholic, though I can at least resist scents containing civet.

    Red, your very funny story struck several chords with me - the heroin addict looking for unused sites is me to a "T"! - I have a system of 10 regular skin spots per shopping trip, but I can ramp this up to 12 or 14 by going as far as the elbow or spritzing individual fingers (it is quite an art to keep sniffable areas from cross-perfuming themselves).

    Like you, I am corrupting those around me eg my brother and several girlfriends. I have even begun to corrupt people remotely - had an email from a Swedish friend who is now buying loads of stuff from The Perfumed Court and holding testing sessions with her mum and friends over there. It is like some kind of cult or pyramid selling. (If only!)

    For me, the thrill of "OMG it's another package" also holds good - mostly bringing samples. I have managed not to go too mad on full bottles, but I already own upwards of 15, and some of those were mistakes.

    I will visit this thread again when my resistance is low...
    Last edited by VM I hate civet; 7th September 2008 at 06:27 PM.

  22. #52

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by CoL View Post
    Oh I know this feeling alright! Before I stumbled upon Basenotes I had around 30 scents. That was around 8 years ago. I now have over 700. The most I have had coming at once is 32! lol. I have special cabinets now to keep them cool and dark. I must admit I couldnt cope with just 30 now. I get withdrawals when I'm holiday and have just 10 or so. Suppose its time for another clear out!
    My goodness! I've stumbled into a thread of kindred spirits! And here I thought I had gone off the deep end purchasing about 100 bottles in the last 2 months, really "ramping up" my collection - which may be very much off the deep end nevertheless. :bounce: I'll probably cool off it now, there comes a point when I satiate my collector's tendency, more or less, in each type of thing, and usually only acquire a 'trickle', a handful per year when the opportunity presents itself, rather than actively pursuing acquisitions.

    As it is, around 140 bottles have filled my top 2 dresser drawers, and are fighting with other collections for some of that space... I think there's enough variety in there to keep it very interesting, always something new, find some favorites and some trades.

    Fragrances are cool ---

  23. #53

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Hey Andyman,

    Glad you just posted about your collecting rate - beside you I feel pleasantly restrained! Yet I happen to know that the volume of juice I am sitting on, factoring in my average daily spray/dab rates, is running at in excess of 8 years' worth, which is already quite scary.

    I only joined Basenotes on Friday and see I have clocked up nearly 30 posts. Admittedly the weather is lousy in Britain at the moment and I have a cold and don't feel like going outside. Still, I may be looking for the thread on Basenotes addiction before too long!

  24. #54

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    When I started out, I was buying 2 frags per paycheck, now I'm down to 1 a month...if that. Every now and then though...I'll binge. I guess I have a problem too. "Growing" my collection isn't an excuse huh?

    Hi I'm "M" and I'm a colognaholic/pefumaholic.

  25. #55

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Oh dear. I think I am fast developing an addiction to buying perfume. Since I moved to London I've bought rather more than I did before, in that last year and a half I've bought:-

    - Claris Eau Soillelante
    - Serge Lutens Bois en Vanille
    - Bella Bellisima Perfect Man Alternative
    - Perfume de Rosine Rose D'Amour
    - Perfume de Rosine Rose Praline
    - Miller Harris L'air de rein
    - Jo Malone Honeysuckle and Jasmine
    - Jo Malone Grapefruit

    and thinking about it, the last 6 of those are all within the last 6 months. And all I've used up is a bottle of Escada Sunset Heat and one of Clinique Happy so I am definately buying at a faster rate than I can use the stuff up. And I still have some pretty full bottles of other stuff in my drawer, not to mention a bad of samples I have been given with purchases (I haven't got into buying samples yet)

    I'm sure I have been treating myself more because I've had a tough time at work, and as a single girl with no time for romance (as in I am working too hard) I guess buying fragrance (not to mention lots of make up / bath products / facial cosmetics) is one way of making myself feel more feminine and pamper. And don't get me started on the shoes etc. But it's hardly a good substitute for life is it?

    Ho hum, perhaps joining basenotes and reading all about more exciting perfumes to try wasn't a great idea!

  26. #56
    Basenotes Institution
    Mimi Gardenia's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    Location
    Exactly Where I Should Be
    Posts
    20,725

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    I am becoming a perfume addict ! I used to be a one scent person - for years and years before I changed to another signature scent. Now I am so slutty with my fragrances - I change my perfume all the time - I buy not one bottle but two bottles for fear I won't have enough ( and I am saving on shipping ! ) Hence for every perfume I have I have at least one extra full bottle . I have so many samples too.
    My wishlist at Luckyscent is getting very long too but I have refrained from buying more since my last double purchase of Eau De Soir two weeks ago .
    Petty small minded people have no place in my life.
    Currently wearing: Angel by Thierry Mugler

  27. #57

    lightgreen22's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    1,541
    Blog Entries
    4

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by AnnaSa View Post
    I know the feeling!
    However; since I became addicted to perfume and perfumebuying, I've noticed that I spend less on other things, especially clothes.
    And since we are talking about travelling: isn't fragrances a great way to travel in your mind? You can go to the deserts of Marocco, smell the air of Capri and linger in Venezia anytime you want! I know it doesn't beat the real thing, but it's nice to dream a little while your wallet gently weeps.
    ME TOO, Lately when I'm about to by non-perfume related items I tend to think about what perfume I could buy or put in a fund to buy with the money, like a few months I was about to buy a nice coat that was 120$ but then I realized that I could buy a bottle of Nanadebarey Green for that amount, so instead of Express seeing my money like I had planned, BeautyHabit.com saw it instead.
    I am not afraid... I was born to do this.

    -Joan of Arc

  28. #58
    beachroses's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    North Carolina
    Posts
    2,190

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    If you prefer a new bottle of perfume to a coat you don't really need, there's nothing wrong with that, unless you're going around in freezing weather without one... well, winter doesn't last that long.
    Last edited by beachroses; 1st February 2009 at 06:35 AM.

  29. #59

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Hm, if cash, but not only cash, also time and total availabilty within the stocks of perfume houses, perfume shops and so on, were NO object, I would consider not less than 100 (but it could certainly be much more than this particular figure) additional perfume buys. I know that this attitude is counterproductive and corrupts, but even if I'm fully aware that it's an addiction, I'm enjoying every moment of it.
    Currently wearing: Zino Davidoff by Davidoff

  30. #60

    Default Re: Addicted to buying perfumes

    Quote Originally Posted by tinker424 View Post
    LOL...I actually have been stock piling tea for years! I was thinking the other day, as I opened the cabinet and boxes of tea fell on my head, I need to join a tea forum! It is a sickness, I can't stop! I love tea and perfume and I have plenty of both should there be an end to civilization.
    Yeah. I'm another tea addict. I think I found a can of rishi chai that I haven't opened for a while.

    I try to limit my fragrances by what I'm going to wear in a short period of time. So far, I have only three full bottles in my home - one pending. So far, if I am to make any more purchases, it will be samples.

    I think the key is to finding your holy grail, and sticking to it.
    "If a perfume stinks, it's a disaster when she turns off the light." - Jean-Paul Guerlain




Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 1 2 3 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Turin, Sanchez & Perfumes: The Guide tidbits in April '08 Allure magazine
    By mikeperez23 in forum Male Fragrance Discussion
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 1st April 2008, 02:52 PM
  2. I <3 Buying Blind
    By Havok in forum Just Starting Out
    Replies: 17
    Last Post: 10th March 2008, 03:28 AM
  3. male perfumes psychology
    By Profumo in forum Male Fragrance Discussion
    Replies: 69
    Last Post: 24th November 2007, 06:18 PM
  4. My Chanel Rue Cambon Christmas Story
    By Rockford in forum Male Fragrance Discussion
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 5th January 2006, 07:22 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  



Loving perfume on the Internet since 2000