Welcome, Andrew. It is nice to meet you (sort of). I'm not sure if this counts as an appropriate term for two people to properly be introduced to one another.
Anyway, I have the perfect scent for you. This is my opinion of the perfect scent so don't be worried if you are turned off by it. It is Tea for Two by L'Artisan Parfumeur. It is a unisex fragrance, but a little more on the masculine side, IMO (in my opinion). It is an amazing blend of smokey tea leaves that gives a light yet captivating hold on your nose. It is sweetened up and smoothed out by a lovely honey note. There is a little bit of a woody spice to give it a pleasent kick. It is not too strong though. It is a drifting fragrance that gives off a low and constant sillage that does not agrivate the nose nor make you feel sick when you smell it for hours. It is a very romantic scent.
This fragrance is a little on the expensive side but worth what you pay for it. Retail is usually $75 for a 1.7oz and $110 for a 3.4oz. I've never seen it sold on Basenotes in full bottle form. I assume it is because everyone who owns it, loves it. It happens to be my favorite scent of all times. My girlfriends have loved it. It is my special dating scent. It's only appropriate for special moments with me. I don't want to waste it. It is appropriate for any situation though. It is very versatile.
This is the single fragrance that I suggest to you. I hope you enjoy it.