Welcome Smelly! I've had those thoughts too - sort of like standing next to someone on the checkout line at the supermarket and trying to parse their lives from what's spread out on the counter!!
One's 'drobe is usually a fluid thing (no pun intended) reflecting what's going on in one's current life, don't you think? We add and subtract - experiment and pass along. Mine is just like Gemini me - all over the place. :bounce:
And I wouldn't even try to speculate on those members with hundreds of frags - they are the serious ones who are truly committed. (Again, no pun intended!)