I can't say that I have a suggestion for you yet, but a couple of words about Dreamer:
I can tell you it most definitely is not stiff like Envy. You are right about Envy, that's a scent you wear to a nice dinner or out with a suit, etc. and that's about the extent of it. Dreamer is not like that at all. It smells very strange when first applied, but it dries down into a sort of sweet comfort scent that is very nice. I wear it around the house, something I would never ever do with Envy. Dreamer can be dressed up a bit, but again it's a softer enveloping scent once it dries down. Some here will suggest it for summer wear, and you could try it for that perhaps, but while it is not like Envy, I also don't think it meets your specs for a summer scent and it is not particularly masculine either.