I get what your saying about the differences in presentation. Luckyscent is like the enabling hairstylist who does wacky things to your hair and looks at you and goes "Oh... How FUN! What a FUN look for you!" heh-heh. Aedes does have a more reserved feel to it.
Both however are excellent-- I've bought several fragrances from each. I've bought more from Luckyscent because they were the only place I could get Comme des Garçons. Aedes is where I bought some of my L'Artisan, Lutens, and SMN stuff. The shipping is kind of expensive from Aedes. But I've received great service from both places and I'd recommend them highly.