Isn't it funny how scents come into conversation here on BN?
Just lately I have been hearing so much about Femme that I had to find it and try it. Sadly, on me it's vile (my skin and Oakmoss are sworn enemies), but I wish I could wear it as it sounds magnificent.
I'm sure you'll get loads of responses to your plea and in the meantime, why not search the forum for posts about Femme - I know there have been a lot lately - there might be some ideas there that start you off.
I feel for you living in Germany though with all the rules about not importing perfumes. What a bummer! I hope you find a huge vintage bottle somehow - my fingers are crossed for you.