Hi M!
Poivre is wonderful: very clove-y with intense warmth. Not readily available though: you'll have to buy a decant or something, as it's extrait and only available from Caron boutiques.
Sous le Vent is very sharp green for what you want. Lovely fragrance, but not what you're describing.
Equipage might be nice. I don't think I detect too much carnation.
I think Opium incorporates carnation/clove admirably: you do detect it, but it's not a carnation scent per se.![]()