From what I've smelt recently - Dior Homme & Fleur du Male. I didn't mind Dior Homme, but the initial "lipstick + handbag" smell was offputting. And Fleur du Male is just way to feminine, floral and perfume-ey for my liking.
From what I own - Black XS is the most 'feminine.'
I personally dont find Issey Miyake l'ea D'Issey feminine at all, infact if I smelt it on a woman I'd think she smelt like a bloke, but each to their own opinion.