I love Mure et Musc Extreme on myself, because it's a cool, crystal musk with just a bit of sweetness. On my husband, however, the berry note is pronounced, and that doesn't work well for either of us. I think it's definitely a unisex scent - it's not "feminine" or "girly". I'm just not crazy about berry notes in my scents. It depends on what your chemistry does with it, and whether or not you like what your chemistry does with it, if you ask me. I think Mure et Musc (not extreme) is great for men.