Honestly, when I was a newbie, and still am, I went to the "reviews" section on BN and tried every fragrance on the top 15 (with an exception of a few) and picked up the ones I liked. Here is the thing dude, we can give you all kinds of suggestions but start there and you are bound to find something, but the key is, as it always has been, try a lot of scents on and don't blind buy; do what you can to get out there and sample, sample, sample, because we, as well as you, have no idea how any particular scent will react on your skin. Hope this helps. Also, keep in mind, your actions smell louder than you cologne or something like that. LOL.