I considered wearing Opium (for women) but I find top notes too femenine. Have the same feeling with Insensé, Dior Homme, Kenzo Power and A Men and Kiehl's musk.
As a matter of fact, when wearing Kiehl's I feel like an Axe shower gel advert in which a man using women's soap gets surrounded by Snow Beauty's wood friends, namely a bunch of animals helping the poor guy get dressed in a dress and in women's shoes
No, I would not wear women's Fracas even if asked by my wife.
I would not use it if I would not feel comfortable in it, even if my wife tells me it smells "divinely" in me.
BTW, this took me almost twelve years to understand - She always insisted I am too conservative in my dressing tastes, so I followed suit and bought modern-style (would rather say "euro trashy") clothes or else she would give me modern-style clothes as gifts. Last year I made a huge closert clean up, I realized these kinds of clothes were almost new because I never wore them. The bottom line is: use whatever you feel comfortable with, no matter what she says.