I totally agree with your description! It does kind of smell like barbie dolls-- though it's more like those "Strawberry Shortcake" dolls that girls used to play with. They had one that smelled like blackberries. I do recall as a kid I used to hang around the girls sometimes at recess just because I was addicted to sniffing those damned dolls!
I have some Mure et Musc and I like it. I don't reach for it all that often, but it doesn't seem too feminine to me. I do prefer the Extreme though. It seems even sweeter and fruitier, but again is quite unisex.