Oh i'm in the same boat. I've been on the fence for a long time on this one. Some aspects of the frag I love, such as the overall "coolness". Perceived temperature of a frag is a big deal to me, and this one hits a sweet spot that no other has. On the other hand, it's a smidge too gourmand with the chocolate note and becomes cloying sometimes. It just isn't "me", yet.
Having purchased a 50ml bottle from a fellow member recently i've had a chance to spend more time with Dior Homme. My conclusion so far? It doesn't work in the heat. I'm reserving my final judgment for cooler weather.