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    Default Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Has anyone ever had this happen... you love a fragrance, then at some point your hear or read an association that someone else has with that scent - and the scent is forever ruined for you. Two examples. I used to love Santos Concentree by Cartier... until a read a review where someone said it smells like salami or a similar deli- meat. Now everytime I use Santos - that's what I get- salami meat. Grrr! Another one, I, until very recently adored By Kilian's Back to Black... until I read a review where someone said it actually smelled like a freshly-washed ferret. Now everytime I use Back to Black, I smell ferret. Another, Grrr!

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    I feel bad for you. Maybe you should avoid reading negative reviews on your favorite scents...

    But has this happened to me? Perhaps in the past when I was more susceptible to 'suggestions'. Now I've learnt to trust my nose and my 'tastes', at least well enough to read/hear similarly negative comments about my favorite fragrances and have a good chuckle... The latest was when someone suggested that Rose 31 smells like rose + armpits. LOL.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Not at all, in the case I get som odd-smelling notes, I just have wait in order to see how it evolves.

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    Did that writer actually know what a freshly washed ferret smells like?

    It can't be that different from a freshly washed wombat. Perhaps this new association I've suggested will make things better.

    Keep in mind that there's a whole bunch of people here who on reading reviews of Kouros believe and post the mutually exclusive view that it smells like urine and urinal cakes - at the same time. And that just cannot be.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    No, I agree. Most associations I can laugh off. But once in a while the association has a strong basis. e.g. the urinal cake smell of Kouros.

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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Renato View Post
    Did that writer actually know what a freshly washed ferret smells like?

    It can't be that different from a freshly washed wombat. Perhaps this new association I've suggested will make things better.
    Cheers,
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    Thanks for the 'therapy' Renato. It is appreciated.

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    our body chemistries are all different and so we concentrate on different notes when smelling. God only knows though how some of the weird descriptions people ascribe to some scents come from.

    I had my cousin describe Creed's Angelique Encens as having a fecal note to which I pick up now every time I smell it, however its so good I ignore this minor inconvenience for the most part.
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    I can truly sympathize with this situation, since some of my fave frags did not get dissed or booed, but, maybe even worse, I happened to wear them in saddening, even traumatic circumstances (where misfortune struck when I least expected, I didn't know from the very start how sad these occasions would turn out to be- this is maybe the price of wearing frags to often and not keeping... your fragrance boxes closed and your bottles unsprayed, when you should show fragrance-related moderation/fragrance abstinence), so now I can only wear some of my fave frags which I associate with unhappy experiences- these frags including names like Antaeus, Knize Ten, Eau Sauvage and Ungaro III- only at the expense of nearly superhuman efforts. Yet, on the brighter side, I discovered that "shock therapy" might work in my case, because, the more I face my fears and wear this frags more often, the less traumatic the memories about them are, since the unpleasant situations gradually fade into a background of my memory, while the pleasant or at least the neutral memories slowly start to prevail...
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    Sorry to hear about your experiences Neal. It may take some concerted effort on your part, but in the same way that you now focus on the alleged negative aspect of a fragrance, you should be able to change the emphasis back again. I had a similar experience a while back, and taking a break from certain fragrances for a while does pay dividends. After a month or so, you may well be able to enjoy the tarnished fragrance in the way you originally perceived it.

    I hope your love returns soon
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    Evangeline started a great thread on the other side called The Kiss of Death where one particularly deadly description was "butter and farts". Go check it out for more wonderful examples.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Sorry you feel that way, Neal.

    I wouldn't read negative reviews if I were you, or your wardrobe will dwindle down to nothing!

    Personally, I love the negative reviews with denigrating comments (a la Turin), they make great reading. Butter and farts is hilarious!

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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Well, having bought Green Irish Tweed at first the Cool Water-reference wasn't pleasant. Then I could get it out my head. I made some comparisons...no more problem for me. Salami, however, would be a different thing...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Renato View Post
    Did that writer actually know what a freshly washed ferret smells like?

    It can't be that different from a freshly washed wombat. Perhaps this new association I've suggested will make things better.

    Keep in mind that there's a whole bunch of people here who on reading reviews of Kouros believe and post the mutually exclusive view that it smells like urine and urinal cakes - at the same time. And that just cannot be.
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    Sure it can.
    It's just that Kouros only smells like urinal Cakes, toilet mints, whatever someone wants to call them.
    Actually, we should call them urinal cakes for Kouros, and the more aloof "Toilet mints" for Orange Spice

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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Quote Originally Posted by veuve amiot View Post
    Evangeline started a great thread on the other side called The Kiss of Death where one particularly deadly description was "butter and farts". Go check it out for more wonderful examples.
    Quote Originally Posted by Evangeline View Post
    About a month ago I had been greatly enjoying one of my new favorite fruity florientals (one that seems to be very well-liked around here, too) when something happened that might have ruined it for me forever. To my horror, my fiance asked me if I was congested b/c he thought I had just applied Vicks Vap-O-Rub..."a big gob of it" is how he phrased it. Even more to my horror he was right - there it was, a note that smelled exactly like mentholatum. And the thought persisted along with the note until I was forced to scrub it off about 20 minutes later. Rats! I figured I'd put it away and retry it later, and I did that a few minutes ago but it's still a no-go. I don't see ever wearing this one again. I will go scrub again once I'm done with this post...sigh.

    I'm usually not quite that suggestible, especially when I really like a fragrance, but that comment somehow just did me in. And one other one - I recently read on another board that someone was told her perfume smelled like "butter and farts." Oh no! Before I read that I was very eager to try the fragrance in question, but I immediately crossed it off my list. I'm pretty sure a "fart" note will always be a deal breaker for me - I can't unring that smelly bell.

    I hesitate to mention the names of these two scents because I wouldn't want to put anyone else off of them for all eternity (although it would be interesting to hear your guesses based on those unappealing clues!) I was just wondering if this has ever happened to anyone else.




    Evangeline hits the neal (nail) on the head... I can't unring that salami/washed ferret bell.

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    I've read that Miel de Bois smells like urine-soaked overalls, and yes it does. I still love it!
    And reading Tania's comment on Nuit Noire as being a "loud civet fart" made me want to try it even more! Heck I have a bottle now!
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    For me a fragrance is what I make of it, some of my fragrances received such terrible reviews but that doesn't deter me. If I like it so be it, screw everyone else LOL

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    Has happened. I admit I am extremely high-strung when it comes to perfumes. Shouldn`t be that way, but that`s the way it is and that`s the way I am in person..

    This is why I rarely read any reviews at all anymore (there are only few people in the world who`s opinion I am interested in) and I have completely stopped reading bloq`s such as Perfume Smellin` Things.
    Also, my ignore list at the Basenotes is getting more and more massive evrytime I visit here.

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    LOL nice AV / post combo PigeonMurderer
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Quote Originally Posted by PigeonMurderer View Post
    Has happened. I admit I am extremely high-strung when it comes to perfumes. Shouldn`t be that way, but that`s the way it is and that`s the way I am in person..

    This is why I rarely read any reviews at all anymore (there are only few people in the world who`s opinion I am interested in) and I have completely stopped reading bloq`s such as Perfume Smellin` Things.
    Also, my ignore list at the Basenotes is getting more and more massive evrytime I visit here.
    I admit it is easier not to read perfume blogs at times !
    Petty small minded people have no place in my life.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    One of my favorite Serge Lutens, Serge Noire was described in one of these blogs as "a lumberjack smeared with Vicks Vaporub"...!
    I actually found it hilarious and everytime I wear Serge Noire I think of this weird lumberjack and smile to myself. Didn't hurt my love for the scent one bit...
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    The description of a "glue note" in Creed Silver Mountain Water has just about spoiled it for me.
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    Oh yeah leave me and my Anvers alone! I'm not trying to cover up anything! lol

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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Salami? All I can really say is that some people have very vivid imaginations, and I'll give them credit for that

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    No, it has not happened to me.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    Someone calling Terre d' Hermes ˝Turd d'Hermes˝ ain't gonna make me stop liking it. If you like something and have an opinion about it, stick to it and defend it. Build up some character god dammit!
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    Quote Originally Posted by scentsitivity View Post
    The description of a "glue note" in Creed Silver Mountain Water has just about spoiled it for me.
    I love the smell of glue - all glues.
    There is no glue note in SMW that I can detect - else I'd like it even more than I do.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    I've had a few destroyed by bad associations with people or places. For instance, I once had a very bad boss in a worse job absolutely bathe in Polo - and to this day I can't be around the stuff.

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    My experience from negative review was about Unforgivable that smells like cocacola and cheap drugstore deo, well it took 1 month and I couldn't find any cocacola in it anymore.
    On the other way I have some good associations with Ultraviolet every time i wear it. It was a crazy spring weekend by the sea when I was first time wearing this new cologne...

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    This can happen for sure. I had one, not necessarily ruining it, but just changing my perception. Someone mentioned that Ambre Narguile smelled like stewed fruit. It was just not how I thought about it, but I do see what they meant.
    Someone else told me that TFTV smelled like old bananas... that one I'm not so sure about.
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    Default Re: Unwanted negative associations and how they ruined a fragrance for me.

    I got a sample of Dior Homme. Put some on and began reading reviews to help identify the notes. What I read was Lip stick and make up. They're right. Not sure how they dissolved the lip stick into a clear liquid, but I can't wear this one any more.
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