Hmmm, sounds like most chypres are out for you :P
A few Masculine frags you might like are:
- Zino - Davidoff...Not patchouli..though lavender.
- D&G Pour Homme - A nice frag, luxurious and content.
- Azzaro Pour Homme - No Patchouli at all, though is full of amber, jasmine, leather and mildly sweet spices. A Lovely frag!
- Pierre Cardin - Has Patchouli, though is EXTREMELY unnoticeable. A vanilla, leather and luxurious frag! lovely!
- L'artisan - Dzing! - Only if you're into leather frags. A heads up, Awesome!
- Frederic Malle - Musc Ravegear - Has had some great reviews, musky, sensual and all round greatness! do try!
Cheers and good Luck!