Me me me. It's all about me. If anyone else smells it on me, fine, though it usually makes me a little paranoid when too many people say, "You smell good." It's like when too many people say, "That's a nice tie." That means, "You dork, your tie is too loud." Same goes for fragrance. Subtle is best. Start by pleasing yourself. And don't gas out your friends, family, and co-workers. If you're wearing fragrance thinking it'll help you get laid more often, you need to spend more time in a gym first. THAT will get you laid more often. Cologne is just a tiny component of getting laid, at best.