((((((30Roses)))))) - it's a tough thing to go through, best wishes to you and your family.
And to the SoTD
Since I just spilled about 7.5 ml of Patchouli Empire (in what was supposed to be a simple sniff/dab move that went horribly wrong) all over me and on my clothes, I'm guessing my SoTD is... Patchouli Empire. Can't comment on it until I am only wearing one human-sized dose!
Sheesh. Grace personified I am not. :-}