Welcome to Basenotes Sillage Enthusiast - you are welcome with open arms .
I think those reviews online bragging about how many compliments men get are not to be taken too seriously. I think they are sometimes greatly overblown .
If it makes you feel better , I rarely get compliments -even comments - on what I am wearing. The last one was for La Prairie Cellular Body Spray !!! *LOL* The person who commented said it smelt very good. For Mitsouko - I had a mouthwash comment. C'est La vie. Just enjoy yourself.
Just wear the scents you like for yourself . it's just a bonus to get an compliment ,when you do. Forget trying to analyse yourself - I doubt it has to do with attractiveness ,events,age.
My 2 scents,that's all .