If you didn't care for the edt for terre d'hermes the parfum version isn't a big stretch different.
As for Grey Vetiver, that's a great choice and I'm not even particularly a fan of vetivers but that one does it really well.
A*Men Sunessence is one I actually bought because it's basically A*Men you can wear in the summer without the harsh notes. Surprisingly it lasts for a long time but it's very deceiving. It's hard to smell on myself after a while but I've gotten compliments while wearing it 6-8 hours after I sprayed it on. It has deceiving longevity like Bvlgari Pour Homme.
Buy what you like more, both are great options.