I propose this advice not for gay or straight but for anyone in the dating game.
You want something pleasant and "safe" that will not be too controversial that might put someone off. Nothing too strong with huge sillage that might offend. Wear what you like and be confident. Don't go out and buy something because you think it will be a love potion. We have stickies that deal with this in which people want the ideal "love potion" or aphrodisiac.
It seems like you are putting too much emphasis on your fragrance and not the most important thing: YOU! I would go, however, with the Chanel Pour Monsieur.
Relax and enjoy yourself! Self-confidence is the sexiest thing a person can possess--even more so than beauty. In France in the 19th century, there were the women known as "jolie laides"--"ugly beauties." They were not conventionally beuatiful but attracted men like bees to honey because of their charm, wit and intelligence.