I got an 8ml decant. I love the scent, but don't feel I can wear it. I think it is a very unisex scent.
I would not knock anyone who likes it and wears it. It may come down that I can't assign it a "role" in my wardrobe.
I always find that it is a scent that would drive me crazy on a woman, but not on me. (Which is not to say I find it too feminine.)
Many men can and do get away with it I'm sure. It's pretty magnificent stuff, deserving of the praise it gets. There are probably several unisex scents that live in this same territory. A lot of the L'Artisan scents are like this to me.