My recommendation may fit your preferred scent profile. It is clean, fresh, not smokey, slightly sweet and then slightly leathery, and then a little sweet toward the end. It is not entirely without citrus--it has bergamot and a note that is a bit like a lemon drop or lemon sherbet. It is not completely free of floral notes, but they are soft. It might be a bit old for you--probably not a club scent, but the age thing seems as meaningless to me as the gender designation. If it is good enough for Richard Gere, it is great for me and you might like it too. What is it?
Habit Rouge by Guerlain. There are flankers that are well-regarded, but I have not tried them.