Well if you like your vetiver to have a dominant vetiver note then there heaps of other fragrances out there to suit your taste. Try Frederic Malle Vetiver Extraordinaire or some vetiver essential oil.
Vetiver pour elle is a beautiful, lively, vibrant & floral vetiver. I find it very uplifting and soothing. The florals are thrown in unabashedly & I adore it. The longevity & sillage are both as good as it gets. The vetiver note is most certainly identifiable but like I said before, it is mixed with a healthy dose of florals. This is a very expensive vetiver (perhaps the most expensive I know of) and I didn't dither to splurge on it after I got a decant.
This certainly will appeal to people who don't like unadulterated vetiver or who associate the vetiver note with the smell of a 'swamp'.