Hi Dr. GTS! Hermes Kelly Caleche edt fits your criteria. It's a light, sweet floral kept completely under control by a refined leather note. Hermes perfumes tend to whisper as a rule, I've found, but they don't sit so close you have to do the wrist-to-nose thing in order to detect them. Chanel No. 5 Eau Premiere might be worth checking out, as well, although longevity might be an issue-- I'm talking max 6 hours, on my skin.