This is a really intriguing thread idea, Desmond Hume. While I like fragrances of all "personality types", I think the idea of matching a fragrance to a personality isn't absurd and actually kind of a cool idea.
For you, two from Maison Francis Kurkdjian come to mind, two that I've been loving lately:
Cologne Pour le Soir which is a pretty powdery incense with the perfect amount of sweetness. It's soft and intimate.
Lumiere Noir Pour Homme is another soft fragrance, this time with the quietest hint of rose and patchouli encased in a pillow of soft incense and wood smells. It's quiet but present. I seriously think you'd like both of these.
Others: L'Artisan Mechant Loup, Serge Lutens Iris Silver Mist, and any of the Comme des Garcons Series 3 Incenses.