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    Default Have you ever asked/complimented another man on what he was wearing.....and what was it?



    I see a lot of questions asked about which fragrances most of you are complimented on. But, I was wondering if you've ever asked or complimented someone else on the fragrance THEY were wearing and what it was.

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    Default Re: Have you ever asked/complimented another man on what he was wearing.....and what was it?

    Just recently I complimented a co-worker on his fragrance. He was wearing Cartier Declaration.
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    Default Re: Have you ever asked/complimented another man on what he was wearing.....and what was it?

    When I smell a nice fragrance on women I often compliment them.

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    Yes I have. I'd do it more often if I smelled fragrances on guys more often. I mostly smell fragrances on women, and I almost always ask and compliment, even if I'm lying just a little. I'm always curious about what other people are wearing, and I like to test my scent memory against random fragrances detected on others. Basenotes hobbyist behavior, I guess. Plus, most women love this kind of attention.

    Regarding the "what was it?" part of this thread: some I have smelled and mentioned in the past include Old Spice, Lalique Homme, Armani Code, and Eternity For Men. The guys I've asked all seemed to enjoy being asked about their fragrances, too.
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    yeah once i did and it turned out to be Lynx (aka axe). So i was pretty bummed out about that. But the guy was really hot - i guess if you're hot you can wear anything and people will get turned on

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    As often as i can. Good conversation starter, as most people appreciate that others appreciate their efforts and/choices. I learn more as well.
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    Last week in the office. My mate came in (meeting room for 12 people) with a big coffee. I started smelling this nice sweetish choc scent. Asked him 'Where did you get this mocha from?'. He smiled and said that he was having tea. I've asked him if it is his cologne that smells chocolatey, because I really liked the scent. He said that he is wearing Boss Orange!

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    I have to agree with you here. I don't find a lot of guys wear cologne. And when they do it is usually something that smells generic or uninteresting.

    However, once one my co-workers was wearing something nice so I asked him...but he wouldn't tell me what it was.

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    I like to test my scent memory against random fragrances detected on others
    +1 but I have to admit I prefer to know the guy well before askin that to him, when I don't mind to ask that to a unknown lady.
    That's stupid, but I think some guys could have some weird ideas about being asked about it by a guy.
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    I agree.... I would only ask a man what fragrance he was wearing if I actually knew him reasonably well, and if I wanted to know - otherwise people could get the wrong idea. However, with women, they really love it if I compliment them on their scent - whether I know them or not. Plus, it can be a good ice-breaker to start chatting them up!
    I have to admit that I have asked the question of male friends and colleagues on numerous occasions though.
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    Kiehls musk...sittin next to a friend of mine back in law school..it does not smell as good on me as it does him.
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    I remember smelling a young gentleman in Starbucks a few years back before my fragrance journey got underway, & to this day it still leaves an impression on me. It is actually a defining moment for me. This gentleman was clean cut, well dressed & smelled so aromatically fresh, but not in an over-bearing kinda way, just right. In a nutshell, his fragrance smelled fantastic.
    I did not have the nerve to ask him what he was wearing. I did not need to know ... because it was enough for me to go out & really pursue finding that scent for myself that would hopefully in the same way, leave an impression on others in such a positive & memorable fashion as this gentleman's fragrance had left such a memorable impression on me to this day. That's a powerful statement if you think about it. Imagine that scent can be just that powerful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pawful View Post
    yeah once i did and it turned out to be Lynx (aka axe). So i was pretty bummed out about that. But the guy was really hot - i guess if you're hot you can wear anything and people will get turned on
    Well said. You need to post this in the sticky on people wanting to know which scents will help them seduce others. It's not the fragrance, it's the person wearing it.
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    Gendarme and Aventus.

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    Sure - but only a handful because I've rarely smelt men wearing fragrance.

    One said it was Cerutti 1881 - but didn't tell me which one and I've been trying them ever since.

    Another couldn't remember.

    Another was wearing Jo Malone.

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    On 3 separate occasions: polo black, EL Pleasures, and Fierce (back before I knew the store smelled like it).
    Is the juice worth the squeeze?

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    When I had Terre D'Hermes I got asked constantly what I had on. I didn't even like it that much!!


    I asked one person what it was and it turned out to be Cool Water. I was blown away, smelled nothing like it off him as it does on me. Thought I would give it another chance but it still just smells boring and aquatic.

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    Just recently I got in the car with a business associate and could smell his cologne. I complimented him and had to ask what he was wearing. He was aloof and gave me a very disingenuous "eh, I don’t even remember". I can't blame the man; I keep my scents closely guarded as well.

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    I can't bear that "Oh I can't remember" reply. I actually think that's a standard "embarassed man's response" to be honest. They don't want someone to think that they go to the bother of actually using a fragrance and knowing its name. It's got little to do with "guarding a secret" I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Riverwide View Post
    I can't bear that "Oh I can't remember" reply. I actually think that's a standard "embarassed man's response" to be honest. They don't want someone to think that they go to the bother of actually using a fragrance and knowing its name. It's got little to do with "guarding a secret" I think.
    I can agree with that, especially in his case. One of the reasons it was so pronounced to me was that I did not peg him as a fragrance enthusiast. It is quite possible that he was being genuine and I was reading in to his response. Either way, I certainly tend to guard mine. Ridiculous? Yes. But, I am more than happy to point them in the direction of finding their own way in the fragrance world! (Which usually starts at www.basenotes.net.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scentational View Post
    That's stupid, but I think some guys could have some weird ideas about being asked about it by a guy.
    ... and that's exactly why I ask guys what they wear any possible chance. "Weird" ideas work with gay guys. Sorry you find it "weird" in 2011, but there you go... No offence intended, and none taken!
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    Quote Originally Posted by petruccijc View Post
    Just recently I complimented a co-worker on his fragrance. He was wearing Cartier Declaration.
    Just outta curiosity...did you recognize the fragrance when you complimented him on it?

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    Default Re: Have you ever asked/complimented another man on what he was wearing.....and what was it?

    I ask all the time...only if I know the person....too many to remember.

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    It seems like every time I smell something decent on another guy (not often), he's walking the opposite direction as me, and I catch a whiff of his scent trail after he's passed. So, I rarely have a opportunity to compliment or ask.
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    I have been happily married more than 20 years and have absolutely no worries about my sexuality or manhood or whatever you want to call it. I will ask a total stranger what cologne they are wearing as well as someone I see everyday, on that same note I would tell a co-worker they look nice if they dress up more than normal, man or woman. People like to receive compliments I think and it is a easy way to make another persons day. As far as the responses go, I get the "I don't remember" quite often, but have also heard, Polo Blue, Polo Double Black (Which made me try it and buy it), Terre D'Hermes most recently and I just ordered a bottle of that.

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    the other day I was working at a social event with a guy that owns a pr company. He smelled fantastic. and when I asked to my surprise he was wearing Comme des Garcons #2 MAN, which is odd as I know of no other argentinean guy or guy that collects or wears niche frags (appart from fellow bnoter Pollux).

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    I was at a Macy's and asked this stranger what he was wearing. It was Tommy Bahama.
    Everyone is somebody's weirdo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Riverwide View Post
    I can't bear that "Oh I can't remember" reply. I actually think that's a standard "embarassed man's response" to be honest. They don't want someone to think that they go to the bother of actually using a fragrance and knowing its name. It's got little to do with "guarding a secret" I think.
    Probably. When I don't feel like letting someone in on my secret, I'll just say I'm wearing Cool Water. Or Old Spice.

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    Lol@ all the scent secretive folx, lol. Unless we are in some kinda direct competition or something, I don't think I would ever feel like I couldn't share with someone the fragrance I'm wearing. Fact is though, if I smell a nice fragrance, I do usually ask.

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    Default Re: Have you ever asked/complimented another man on what he was wearing.....and what was it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Larwiz View Post
    Lol@ all the scent secretive folx, lol. Unless we are in some kinda direct competition or something, I don't think I would ever feel like I couldn't share with someone the fragrance I'm wearing. Fact is though, if I smell a nice fragrance, I do usually ask.
    I have to laugh at myself about it sometimes too. I don’t really have a legitimate explanation for why I do it. It's ironic because I am so hypocritical...I ask people what they are wearing fully expecting a response, yet, when someone asks me I generally give them a fleeting response.

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