Neither strikes me as feminine, to the contrary. I don't remember the candle, but Philosykos smells very natural and like a fig (fruit + the big greenness of the leaf). If you like fig scents, you can't go wrong. Decent longevity on me.
L'ombre dans l'eau is a personal favorite. It is perhaps the opposite of perfumey (whatever you mean by that, powdery? civety?). It's a strong green and vegetal blast, indeed, a blast in your face. Some people detect also some rose in it, but I don't. It is very persistent. (The shower gel is persistent too- I use it frequently, perfect after the gym). Some people hate it. I encourage you to try it, but it's definitely not a blind buy.