To be honest with you, I don't get as much coffee out of this as a lot of other people talk about. I get a lot more maple syrup and sugary latte than anything. It doesn't really smell like a coffee shop to me. However, I have only tried this once a while back so take it for what its worth. I just think it's worth mentioning that there are other fragrances with coffee as more of the primary note. Seems to be more in the background in NH. I've also never smelled Fancy Love, so I'm not sure how it would mesh with your cologne choice. I think you would be fine though as long as neither of you bathe in your fragrances. Good luck on your endeavor!