Welcome to the boards. I think you will soon realize that most of us here are "explorers" of many different scents and that the idea of matching a fragrance to a certain type of person is not a priority. I'm the same height as you, but I happen to weigh 200lbs , and I do occasionally dab on women's perfume.
That being said, you do seem disturbed by your supervisors comment, and at 135lb, you are not exactly on the bulky side. Combining that with a babypowder scent doesn't do much to improve your presence. I wouldn't suggest your spring for Antaeus, but for intellectual, affable, and sharp, yet professional, look into the classic citrus/chypres like:
Chanel pour monsieur
ysl pour homme
Monsieur de givenchy
Or something a little softer but same family - eau d'hadrien