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  • almost everyone who knows me

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  • most people know me

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  • a good amount of people, but not a lot

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  • very few people ; i keep it secret

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    i keep it mostly secret. i agreed with my fragrance collecting fb friends that there be no public online discussion about fragrances. but the people who are least judgmental about things, i share it with. but even they don't care soo...

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    People know I love fragrance, but what they do not know is I can almost bought a car in cash if I sell my whole collection.
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    -------- Les Exclusifs de Chanel: Sycamore
    ------ Amouage: Fate Man
    -------- Amouage: Epic Man
    ------ Tom Ford Private Blend: Noir de Noir
    -------- Terre D'Hermès Pure Parfum
    ------ EDP FM: Carnal Flower
    -------- Neela Vermire Creations: Trayee
    ------ Dior: Leather Oud
    ------- Hermèssence: Ambre Narguilé

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    As it's fairly recent with me, i have not had time yet to bore the faces off everyone i know but i do fully intend to. As it is, when I Get talking about it, i see people's faces glaze over, and they stop listening. But when they have the urge to throw something out, they will hopefully remember me, and throw it my way instead.

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    People who know me well know I like perfume, the girls in the stores know I like perfume, everyone who knows me know I like perfume. I don't see it as a hobby though just a love.
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    People who know me well know I'm into perfume, but very few know the extent of it. It's not that I want to hide it--I'd happily be honest about how many bottles I have and talk about it freely--but I don't want to bore people to death.

    There are a couple of people I know who would be pretty shocked if they saw my perfume cabinet. I'm ok with that.

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    lt's not that it's a secret exactly, but l wouldn't want to put people off by going on about it, or pretending that it makes me some kind of expert.
    The only person who knows the full extent of it is my bf, & he has come to accept my ways, even if he doesn't fully understand them. A couple of close family members are vaguely aware of it, & also some of my work colleagues who have become good friends of mine over the years. There are a couple of them that l can have light discussions with, & one that l've even passed samples on to. They must realise that l have quite a lot of perfume, but they probably have no idea just how much!
    "What is this secret connection between the soul, and sea, clouds and perfumes? The soul itself appears to be sea, cloud and perfume..." - from Zorba the Greek by Nikos Kazantzakis.

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    My girlfriend and Sisters but I do not make a big deal about it.

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    A good amount of people, yet not everybody, usually, it's a safe bet to say: the closest of my friends, family members and co-workers.
    Currently wearing: Citrus & Wood by Yardley

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    Quote Originally Posted by teardrop View Post
    lt's not that it's a secret exactly, but l wouldn't want to put people off by going on about it, or pretending that it makes me some kind of expert.
    The only person who knows the full extent of it is my bf, & he has come to accept my ways, even if he doesn't fully understand them. A couple of close family members are vaguely aware of it, & also some of my work colleagues who have become good friends of mine over the years. There are a couple of them that l can have light discussions with, & one that l've even passed samples on to. They must realise that l have quite a lot of perfume, but they probably have no idea just how much!
    Pretty much the same for me. Only my nearest and dearest really know the extent of it, but then it would be difficult to keep it from them as we all live in the same house. My mother in law knows, but then she's the one that got me started on this journey. I don't deliberately keep it a secret. I'd tell anyone who asked or showed an interest. I am aware that it might be regarded as strange - even SAs on the perfume counters look aghast if I tell them how many bottles I own. Still, in my line of work (academia) being slightly odd and having an eclectic range of interests is fairly standard.
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    Most people who know me know about my perfume passion. My fellow students sometimes often ask me for help in chosing fragrance for their relatives for Christmas or other occasion like birthday. My parents also know though my dad has never seen my collection in it's "full bloom"

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    a decent amount they dont understand though
    1. Dior Homme Original
    2. Musc Ravaguer
    3. Portrait of a Lady
    4. Noir de Noir
    5. L Instant Guerlain pour Homme Extreme
    6. New Haarlem
    7. Pure Coffee
    8. Blu Mediterraneo Sicilian Almond
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    A good amount of people, but not a lot

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    Quite a few people know in my case. I wouldn't call it a hobby, as I'm a wearer, not a collector.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Hunter View Post
    ... I do not make a big deal about it.
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    Some know, most don't.

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    It's no secret for me.

    Friends know, and after a few dates, anyone I'm seeing knows. It doesn't define who I am, but I definitely don't keep it a secret.

    The beauty of friends is that they're people you choose who like you for who you are. If they don't, they're not very good friends, right? My friends are mostly women, and they tend to have good taste even though most aren't really into perfume. Over time, they notice I often smell different, and every now and then, it becomes a topic for discussion. I've had a few friends privately tell me they bought fragrances for their boyfriends after smelling them on me. I think it's funny and flattering.

    As for dates, I don't wear enough fragrance to be Cologne Guy, but after a few dates, anyone I'm seeing is going to notice I don't always smell the same. I mean, let's be honest, if I wore a different jacket every time a woman sees me, she's going to notice, right? And she'll eventually ask "How many jackets do you own?!" Scents are the same way. Eventually, I get asked how many 'colognes' I own since I often smell differently (because I wear different things on different days). It becomes a topic of conversation and I enjoy it.

    I don't involve everyone in every facet of my life, partly because they're probably not even interested in some parts of it, but I don't keep any of it a secret.
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    My credit card companies.

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    My wife and I are closet frag lovers. People know we wear them, they just don't know how much we have spent on them. We love that both love frags and that we can enjoy them together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kybid View Post
    My wife and I are closet frag lovers. People know we wear them, they just don't know how much we have spent on them. We love that both love frags and that we can enjoy them together.
    That is awesome. I try to share my fragrances with my husband (as my collex primarily leans toward the masculine), but he always says "I really don't want to smell good for the inmates". I should clarify, he works in a prison, he does not reside in one.

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    I just voted, and saw the results of the poll. I find it surprising that most people keep quiet about it. i can't shut up about it, and when i am with friends, i am smelling what they are wearing, making them smell what i'm wearing, and no matter what the conversation was originally about, somehow, i always end up raving on about fragrance. I can't help it really. Maybe i bore them. Maybe if my collection was huge, and costly, like some people here, I might be a little ashamed to own up to it. I aspire to get to that point.

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    Family and closest friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scent-imental View Post
    I just voted, and saw the results of the poll. I find it surprising that most people keep quiet about it. i can't shut up about it, and when i am with friends, i am smelling what they are wearing, making them smell what i'm wearing, and no matter what the conversation was originally about, somehow, i always end up raving on about fragrance. I can't help it really. Maybe i bore them. Maybe if my collection was huge, and costly, like some people here, I might be a little ashamed to own up to it. I aspire to get to that point.
    Good for you! I'm glad some people are into talking about it!

    I used to be less talkative about it, but eventually people found out. I supposed if I would have been on a beer-brewing forum, nobody would care, but it was gossip-grade for a guy to be into fragrance, so at that point, I just started putting on a good show. Eventually people realize it's more embarrassing to gawk than to be part of the story, so now I notice a lot of folks around me taking more interest in fragrance, and wearing cooler stuff. Generally, people are fascinated (for about 5-10 minutes) when I do talk about it. After that they get bored.
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    My boyfriend knows, though that's nothing I can "hide" from him since he lives with me. A coworker of mine knows, and she sometimes goes to me for fragrance suggestions or tells me what one she will buy next--she usually goes through one bottle at a time and then will buy a new one when her previous one is used up. But she's pretty easy to talk to about our hobby. My mom knows too, since I give her perfume periodically when I do a clean sweep of neglected perfumes. In all honesty, I don't seek out talking about it with anyone, but if anyone does want to talk about perfume either online or in person, I'm all for it.

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    Fragrance collecting is a bit of a newer thing than the older collection hobbies such as collecting stamps, coins, comics etc.
    Even with collecting comics, if you are older, some people see it in a negative way. Even Elvis Presley's daughter (was it Priscilla? I can't remember ) made Nicolas Cage sell his comic book collection. Nick did the right thing in my opinion of eventually telling her to F Off.

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    My GF and buddies know about my collection. I just say I collect fragrances like fine wine. Everyone thinks its interesting and cool.
    "If you enjoy the fragrance of a rose, you must accept the thorns which it bears."
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    Quote Originally Posted by PalmBeach View Post
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    This!

    I tend to keep it secret. I'd say my mom, my sister and two of my closest friends know that I'm into frags. Ofcourse some fellow parfumistas. Hovever I don't want my family and friends to know the extent of my passion. I feel nobody would understand. And it also makes me feel guilty somehow having spent so much on something that 'unimportant'. My mom likes smell, is interested as she used to work in an aroma lab when she was young. However she doesn't own many 'fine' perfumes. She is so pragmatic about it. She has some old and cheap stuff she's been given as a present. Then I made her sample No 19, which she liked a lot and bought. When I bought her insolence edp as a present, which she loves, she immediately gave No 19 to my brother's wife because she didn't 'need it anymore'. This kind of pragmaic, protestant attitude somehow makes me feel bad about adding 2 frags every month to my ever increasing collection. I also feel I spend more time with this hobby than I would like people to know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gilesjp View Post
    My GF and buddies know about my collection. I just say I collect fragrances like fine wine. Everyone thinks its interesting and cool.
    Same here. That's the only way I can explain it to people who don't "get it."

    I've got a few buddies who totally understand the amount of creativity and art in perfume, and have an appreciation for it like any other art (after discussing it with them). They're usually pretty eager now to try something I suggest, or comment on something I'm wearing.

    My other friends who aren't so open-minded get bored when I talk about it so they have no idea how many bottles I have or how passionate I am about "perfume."
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    I can mostly get away with my collection because they are for perfumers reference... !!!
    Yes about it being like collecting fine wines, except I have a problem with the latter because I use them up too fast... lol.
    However I wouldn't dare elaborate too far. I only show the real damage to fellow enthusiasts and other perfumers.
    Currently wearing: Gilda by Pierre Wulff

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    Only those closest to me. I really can't be bothered to explain myself time and time again.

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    Partner - work colleagues - plenty of SA's in stores who know I'm a 'buyer'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trebor View Post
    Only those closest to me. I really can't be bothered to explain myself time and time again.
    Same here. People would be alarmed to learn the number of fragrances I have in my collection.
    "No elegance is possible without it...perfume is a part of you." Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel
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