Have you tried Amouage Interlude Woman? It has some of the notes you listed. It's notes are bergamot, grapefruit, ginger, tagete, frankincense, rose absolute, orange blossom, nut, kiwi, coffee, honey, opoponax, vanilla, benzoin, amber, sandalwood, agarwood, oakmoss, leather, tonka bean and musk. This perfume is really interesting, different from other Amouages. At first I wasn't very taken with it, it reminded me of my piano teachers house, but the more I think about Interlude, the more I change my mind on it. It would be worth testing.