Azzaro Acteur is probably my favorite mens frag with a dominant rose note and could easily be pulled off by a women. The price isnt bad either. As for raspberry, I only have experience with niche house that have that note such as Tuscan Leather, Clive Christian C, and one of the Mark Birelys(cant remember which).
The Acteur is a spicy, fizzy rose with woody undertones and a hint of leather. Longevity and projection are above average as well.
For a dead on interpretation of the classical rose scent try Tea Rose by Perfumers Workshop. You can get 125 mls for something like $10 U.S. and it is a nuclear bomb packed with roses when you spray it. Its actually really nice when sprayed with moderation on a lady, my girlfriend wears it sometimes, and I always like it when she does.