Let me first present my deepest condolences. No fragrance will be exactly like Tender Poison. My best friend wore and loved it. The closest (although not exactly the same) fragrance is Cabotine by Gres. The original. It's still unchanged and has the same green, fresh, musky, clean sillage. Cabotine is slightly greener and lemony and less medicinal and powdery compared to TP. You can experiment by mixing scents. There was a similar fragrance that came along around the time TP and Cabotine came out - C'est la vie by Christian Lacroix. Cabotine + C'est la vie = Tender Poison. C'est la vie was a powdery, medicinal, bitter-sweet musky scent. It's now sadly discontinued and not easily found. There is a similar masculine scent - Grey flannel by Geoffrey Beene. Grey flannel has the strong bitter violet + orris accord Cabotine lacks. 4 sprays of Cabotine + 1 spray of Grey flannel will give the exact feel of Tender Poison. I just tested and compared. Good luck and please share with me Your thoughts on it.